Hey guys. Im here as a support system. Suicide is NOT THE ANSWER. Encouraging someone to end their life is WRONG.
I am here for encouragment to find what makes you happy, to give you ideas, to help you through anxiety …
Ive had many friends commit suicide, you WILL have to deal with your problems on the other side. It MAY take longer than your human life to accept your demons and move on to a peaceful afterlife. You will here your friends and families thoughts and some can feel very sorry for putting people through suicide.
We all feel helpless, stressed, like sleeping forever is the easy way out … ITS THE ENERGY OF THE WHOLE WORLD RIGHT NOW, its the pressure of needing to feel perfect, have MONEY and material possesions … Everyone, even the people that seem perfect have moments like you do, everyone.
I jsut want to talk and be there for you. Makes me sick when I see people needing some encouraging and someone responding with something that encourages suicide. Misery loves company and its not right. People are encouraging you to end your life because they may be more miserale. There is hope. You can have anything you want …. I promise.
“If you always do what you’ve always done you’ll always get what you’ve always got.”
MAKE A CHANGE! TALK TO ME! I am here to encourage you to find what will make you happy. Love, money, helping others, ect.
Jenniferjdriscoll@yahoo.com
xoxoxox
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The sentiment is appreciated and I hope you can help someone.
Also, giving people ways to kill themselves is wrong. Looking up “tips” on how to do “it” is wrong.
Why is someone alive and telling you how to kill yourself ????? I would NEVER trust such a person and you shouldnt either. GIving you the “steps” ?????? That person finds pleasure in your pain???? Gets off my knowing people may use their tips ????? DONT LISTEN.
What about those who have NO FUTURE and have NO HOPE.
What about those people?
@Biscuit Its unrealistic for any human being to not have a future. Thats extreme and silly to think. I dont know what the fuck is going to happen in a day, month, year, decade … but if you’re alive, you MUST have a future. Noone in this LIFE has EVER known whats going to happen in their future. Having no hope is selling yourself short.
Currently I have no career, no secure place to live, friends that have their own lives. Id like to meet more people, have deeper connections, find my calling, do something that makes me happy everyday … that comes with time. The beauty of life is a single second can change your life. The problem with the world, is we are all so anxious, we want it fucking NOW. And if it doesnt happen NOW, or SOON, we are hopeless???
I feel the same anxiety you feel, My future has beein uncertain since the day I left high school. I see other people that seem to have it all, a future, ect…. but everyone feel uncertainty, its the energy of the world right now. I ask that you wait it out. What have YOU dont to TRUELY try to change your future??? ANSWER ME THAT! I mean …. truely. ACTIONS, not thoughts ……..
done*** to truely change your future.
I know you are trying to help but please repect people’s right to die, do not force them to live, but talk and debate with them if they want to.
Im having alot of trouble with myself at the moment,my antidepresants have stopped working i sent a cry for help to my pschiatrist this morning i just feel im loosing hope i cryed myself to sleep last night quietly so my husband wouldnt hear i just feel like swallowing all my pillss and going across the road to tje beach and swimming untill i cant i feel so down im sick of feeling like shit and i hate myself i just cant go on feeling like this
Thats what I am doing. I am pro-choice in every aspect of life. I do not judge. If one of my best friends came to me and asked for advice about this choice, I would offer love and support. If they still chose to make this choice, I would do nothing but celebrate their life.
My friend hung herself on Sept. 26th. She reached out to friends via facebook saying she was alone and needed to talk. People did not respond … If she reached out to me I would have, if she still went through with it I would have understood it was deep, deep pain. Id do nothing but celebrate the good times we did have.
To be honest if I emailed with someone for hours, days, years, and they came to me and said they were still going to go through with it, Id respect that. I have a VERY VERY VERY open mind and wouldnt want anyone telling ME what to do, Im not telling anyone what to do. I just want to shine the smallest light if possible.
Molly, I emailed you, read it! 🙂
Some people dont feel there any thing for them. That life is just to much. I feel that way. I dont have any plan as such, but I feel suicidal all the time. I know my plan is to get to a place where I have a plan one that will either see me through or I end it. Why do u feel u can help. Im not wanting to be rude just understand what u think u have to help someone like me.
I just believe life works in cycles. Waves. Ups and downs. I dont have anything to help anyone but a friendship and my perspective on life. Everyday I learn something new from someone else that can change the smallest aspect of a feeling I have towards something. In some cases that may be all it takes. Giving someone the SMALLEST idea into something that can open up a way of thinking they never even thought about. Life and death and how we feel, why we do the things we do, intrigues me … I learn something from someone everyday.
Life is a lot … life is fucked up … the world is fucked up , I wish it could be more simple for all of us … Im just here for the smallest ounce of change ……… I cant help everyone. Some people just need a little encouragment ……. not everyone is heartless and I dont like to see people sad.
Life is so fucked up. I agree the world is a messed up place. Im sick of it. Of life. Of the trouble etc. Some people think it is selfish to do it, I think its selfish to stop it. If someone wants it why shouldn’t they be allowed the space to do it. Why keep someone locked in their pain for the sake ofseeing them again etc.
We will all feel peace someday … Some through life, some through death.
Yes. That I agree with.
Indeed we shall, the only refuge for some of us in in our sleep.
But in death we chall all be at peace, when we go beyond the Pale of Life.
In death we will be at peace. But first you will have to face the things that you felt in the flesh in order to move on to pure peace.
@itsjennjo – Well i disagree with you, i just think we get peace wether or not we face the things in life.
I mean right now we are running from it, are we not?
We arent running from anything. We are just living. In flesh. Theres nothing to run from. There are just different forms of life, flesh, spiratual(death). After death no doubt we will get peace, but we will still understand what we went through in the flesh. We will reflect … nothing is certain.
@itsjemjo you lose some one?
Ive lost a few people and lately have been hearing story after story of incidents … nothing to where I would need sympathy or an apology … the recent one was a girl who I went to school with K-12 who was smart, and witty, and hilarious yet you could tell she had a tough exterior yet a very sensative interior … We hadnt spoke in years yet I heard last night she had reached out to some of our friends in which they didnt respond and it sparked something in me …
Exactly. Nothing in life is certain. A former chum of mine kept harping about fate and destiny.
You agree NOTHING in life is certain, then dont you see that being hopeless FOREVER isnt certain??? Good things can happen if you wait it out.
Chill. I’m not hopeless. You don’t know my story so please don’t group me with the rest of the folks here. Ugh.
I dont know anyone on here at all , this is just a general conversation hun. No need to be defensive.
I think you took the “you” a little too literal my friend, YOU chill.
Mmk. I offer my most sincere apologies.
So hard to find maturity in this day and age. All I have is my 25 year old chum. <3
Oh and no malice was meant.
🙂
Still fucking here,well another day of feeling sorry for myself i really make myself sick, i wonder how much longer i will live before i get brave enough to end my pitiful existance…
Hopefully never. Hopefully, you’ll get brave enough to pack up everything you own, throw it all outside, and burn it. Then, get away from wherever you are and start new. Live a new life, be someone new, do what you want, and never look back. If you don’t wanna do it alone, then take someone with you.
Running away isnt the answer i have a very large tie with guilt attached,beleive me when i say i have thought about it
I ran away. It gave me time to think, a little breathing room, and now I can solve any problem. It isn’t always the answer, and I do regret it sometimes, but now I have my own life now and I’m able to help my family now that I’ve fixed my own shit. Maybe it could help you a bit to breathe a little.