Idek anymore. I’m friendless, failing out of school, have family problems, and, on top of all else, I’m in love with my only friend. She’s all I ever think about. We dated for about a year, she broke up with me(x3). That was two years ago. We both have changed, lots. I see her date horrible guys and its like she rubs my nose it, and yes, she knows how i feel about her. Today, i asked her for a single date. Just to see if she likes the new me. She is now mad at me, and flipped out on me for it. Its not my fault. I truely love her. It’s like looking through a window and what what you most desire, then your pawing at glass like a mime. Why?): anyone know what i mean?
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Life seems downright tough for you right now but you’ll only come out stronger from it. Pick up the pieces and show this girl that you are capable of moving on. When you move on you open so many new doors and opportunities. And maybe she just hasn’t realized how truly amazing you are. Maybe she just needs some more time. Give her space and try and move on.
Thank you (:. I wish it was as easy a you put it. Ive been trying that for a long time, for awhile i didnt even talk to her. It hurt even more than being close friends and suffering everyday. Ive tried every thing i can think of, any suggestions for moving on are welcome. Ive tried; not talking to her, ignoring feelings, dating other girls(worst of all choices), keeping busy, and some not so healthy ways(dont ask). Blah. All i know is she thinks of me like a brother, and all i want to do is look into her deep blue eyes and feel the touch of her soft lucious lips against mine, and hold her in my arms and spin her around like we are the only people on earth. Fml.
I think your torturing the crap out of your self.
I wouldn’t be able to be around an ex if I still felt like you say you do for yours.
All my ex’s live in Tx, thats why I hang my hat in Tennesee, lol.
the reality though is, sometimes, once you’re into a girl’s “Friend Zone”, it’s big probability that she will keep view you as her Best Friend, not a potential lover,.although there are certainly also some exceptions cases where best friends can finally turn into lovers, but in general I wouldn’t count on it..
all you can really try for now (and trust me, I’ve read many articles, and also based on own experiences) is to try to ignore her, make her feel like missing you (or the so-called “the gift of missing you”). If she’s really ‘into’ you, whether as a friend or romantically, the point is to make her finally aware of how much she *needs* you on her side,..and if she did contact you, then probably you’ll still have a chance, because it shows how IMPORTANT you are, for her..!
But in the mean time, the Best thing you can do is just to ‘ignore’ her for now, and keep moving on, focusing on your life, doing your best things, and open up new friendships & even relationships (you’ll never know..!).
My best friend had a similar crush/obsession on me when we first met. After 1 year of being close friends I could see it was taking an emotional toll on him so I stopped talking to him for 2 years. Then he went off the deep end (don’t ask) and so I thought it was better to be friends with him. For the next 4 years, we were friends, but not very close, because I was always leaving the country and we had different social groups. In that time he dated several girls he didn’t like, and 2 that he fell in love with (who later tore his heart out). Last year, we started to be close friends again. We are now both single and great platonic friends, so it’s taken a while to get to this point but here we are. I think it was just a LOT of time, and distance. Either way, don’t ask her out again. It really sounds like you don’t have a shot, so don’t torture yourself.
She dont like you that way. Get over it.
Dam them Blue Eyes, …… they’ll get you every time.