I’m just coping…. Knowing I can post somewhere where there are going to be depressing posts brings some comfort, this is stuff i cant say to anyone given my current situation. Yes, I live in Canada… I dream of moving to Italy or Greece, or London… New setting…
Caucajun is right, don’t torture yourself. Sure, confront and address the past, but you can’t live in it. At some point… get rid of the ring. It will help you let go of her.
If you have the means, move to italy. It’s quite hard to be depressed with all that good food and wine and weather.
@scisorhands: it seems like you just replaced your emotional attachment with the ring, with an emotional attachment with this river where you had the first date, first made love… so maybe stop visiting this place for a while?
Hm, but you’re still thinking about it and your mind is still going back to the ring and the river… at the same time as thinking about going to a new city. Well, I don’t think a new city would hurt, either way you should look for distractions so you don’t keep thinking about this.
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zawww Q~ Q how tragic *sniffles*
Scissor, …………. I doubt she is reading this, try not to torture yourself.
Loves come and go, and each one that isn;t to be is painful, yet it will pass.
I don’t know why suicidekillme wrote that, it seems cruel, maybe I’m missunderstanding it’s meaning.
So your in Canada ?
I’m just coping…. Knowing I can post somewhere where there are going to be depressing posts brings some comfort, this is stuff i cant say to anyone given my current situation. Yes, I live in Canada… I dream of moving to Italy or Greece, or London… New setting…
Women…
(no offense)
Caucajun is right, don’t torture yourself. Sure, confront and address the past, but you can’t live in it. At some point… get rid of the ring. It will help you let go of her.
If you have the means, move to italy. It’s quite hard to be depressed with all that good food and wine and weather.
I did get rid of the ring, I threw it into the North Saskatchewan River, it was where we had our first date, and also, made love for the first time.
The memories are gonna hurt until you get over em. Just don’t don’t forget the feeling
@scisorhands: it seems like you just replaced your emotional attachment with the ring, with an emotional attachment with this river where you had the first date, first made love… so maybe stop visiting this place for a while?
I haven’t been there since chucking it in there, so that’s about 5 months? I bought the ring before splitting.
Hm, but you’re still thinking about it and your mind is still going back to the ring and the river… at the same time as thinking about going to a new city. Well, I don’t think a new city would hurt, either way you should look for distractions so you don’t keep thinking about this.
perhaps youre correct, thanks for the advice.
After last divorce 1998, I sold the wedding ring, she thru it on the table when she walked out.
A month later I told her I had sold it, and she was like; … no, you didn’t sell it !
I showed her the newspaper add with it for sale, she just couldn’t wrap her mind around it. Heck it was a $5000 dollar ring.
repeat after me: i don’t want to be in love, i don’t want to be in love