hey what are you thinking thats one thing i need to know first.. You right but i know where you coming ffrom with the self harm.. if you need someone to talk to hmu
yeah, nikster is right, get a good shrink TALK TO YOUR PARENTS! If they’re better then mine, they’ll understand. Don’t end up like us. Shells of beings…lifeless. Don’t give up yet. There is always hope.
Taking medicine such as iburprofen & tylonal isn’t a good ideal. They do damage that can cause you a life time of suffering. If you ruin your kidneys, you will be put on Dialysis. That is where you’ll have to get your blood filtered several times a week. My step-mom had kidney failure & just got a donated kidney. If you cause the damage to yourself (pills, alcohol) you will not qualify to be on the donor list. You will get to wear a central port (a tube placed in a vain in your shoulder) so they don’t have to find a vain every treatment. Yes, a person can life a full life time on dialysis.
The cutting yourself, is a good way to get an infection “skin & blood”. If you have a problem that’s bothering you. Try to talk to someone you can trust or even a total stranger. Around here kids cut themselves over breaking up with a boy/girl friend. That isn’t telling someone your dealing with an issue that your not sure how to handle but tells ppl your wanting attention.
As old as I am, I do understand your feelings and the only difference between you and me is that I have had a few more years to find different solutions to what is tormenting you. You have plenty of time and no rush to make final plans, so before doing anything, you have got to talk to more people. It would be nice if you could talk to your parents first but that is not always possible or practical, but you owe it to yourself to get a second or third opinion before doing anything. There may be answers that you never thought of. Hang in there a while longer, slow down and give this a ton of thought.
One of the hard things about “talking to the parents” (and since I was at LEAST a part-time parent I have a little experience to speak from) is that parents can become defensive about their child’s feelings and actions as if they caused the child’s issues on purpose – so unless the parent is 100% honest and willing to take responsibility for their contribution to the child’s actions and feeling, they will have some level of a conflict of interest and to some degree ‘self-preservation” will creep into the conversation. This is why a professional and objective third party can be the better option – many schools have counselors now that may be able to offer guidance if speaking to your parent seems daunting
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hey what are you thinking thats one thing i need to know first.. You right but i know where you coming ffrom with the self harm.. if you need someone to talk to hmu
Oh My god. I thought I was alone. I’m twelve, and We need to talk…ODing never works, trust me I’ve tried
If you ever need anyone to talk to im here for you.
daissy and i thought we were the young ones…she thirteen.
@foreverwithme you’re still young. You’re a baby….my advice would be to seek professional help before you wind up like me.
yeah, nikster is right, get a good shrink TALK TO YOUR PARENTS! If they’re better then mine, they’ll understand. Don’t end up like us. Shells of beings…lifeless. Don’t give up yet. There is always hope.
Taking medicine such as iburprofen & tylonal isn’t a good ideal. They do damage that can cause you a life time of suffering. If you ruin your kidneys, you will be put on Dialysis. That is where you’ll have to get your blood filtered several times a week. My step-mom had kidney failure & just got a donated kidney. If you cause the damage to yourself (pills, alcohol) you will not qualify to be on the donor list. You will get to wear a central port (a tube placed in a vain in your shoulder) so they don’t have to find a vain every treatment. Yes, a person can life a full life time on dialysis.
The cutting yourself, is a good way to get an infection “skin & blood”. If you have a problem that’s bothering you. Try to talk to someone you can trust or even a total stranger. Around here kids cut themselves over breaking up with a boy/girl friend. That isn’t telling someone your dealing with an issue that your not sure how to handle but tells ppl your wanting attention.
As old as I am, I do understand your feelings and the only difference between you and me is that I have had a few more years to find different solutions to what is tormenting you. You have plenty of time and no rush to make final plans, so before doing anything, you have got to talk to more people. It would be nice if you could talk to your parents first but that is not always possible or practical, but you owe it to yourself to get a second or third opinion before doing anything. There may be answers that you never thought of. Hang in there a while longer, slow down and give this a ton of thought.
One of the hard things about “talking to the parents” (and since I was at LEAST a part-time parent I have a little experience to speak from) is that parents can become defensive about their child’s feelings and actions as if they caused the child’s issues on purpose – so unless the parent is 100% honest and willing to take responsibility for their contribution to the child’s actions and feeling, they will have some level of a conflict of interest and to some degree ‘self-preservation” will creep into the conversation. This is why a professional and objective third party can be the better option – many schools have counselors now that may be able to offer guidance if speaking to your parent seems daunting