Bullying isn’t about the person being bullied having done something wrong – it’s about the bullies making themselves feel good/powerful by making someone else feel bad. They pick on the ones that they think won’t fight back and/or have no-one else to help them.
I don’t understand bulling. I’ve never been bullied, and I’ve never understood the need to bully so both sides of the issue are totally alien to me. Can I ask, did your eating disorder come beofre or after the bullying? And the people who bully you – what are they like? do you think they are insecure in themselves? Or… are they just jerks pure and simple? are they jealous of you?
@One_day. it came before. but know im eating a lot more n~ n. They are just simple naive people who are loud and im pretty sure don’t have any respect for anyone who walks their path. And who would ever be jealous of me? i’m not even too fond about myself.
Well sometimes the qualities that other people admire about us are the very qualities that we can’t see, or don’t value because we take them for granted.
Hmm. Just been taking to a friend about his girlfriend taking him for granted… and how common that is… it’s just occurred to me that we take ourselves for granted in the same way.
You don’t want to be valued by simple people anyway. Simple people value boring or materialistic things. Personally I wouldn’t want to be either of those things. I hope the bullying doesn’t extend to violence. I also hope that there are other people around you who don’t follow the bullies and give in to peer pressure, and are able to see bullies as weak minded people… even if they can’t stand up to them, at least they don’t agree with their behaviour. I’m glad you are eating a bit more. Food is one of life’s simple pleasures. And you can’t hope to nourish the mind or the spirit if you’re unwilling to nourish the body. It’s chinese new year soon. I hope you can find a good chinese resturant in your neighbourhood.
lolz thankies although we dont go out to eat tho o~ o. And you are right although my friends dont notice it but i do, but i guess its best not to put others lives in danger o 3o. I hope you also have a good chinese new years too n~ n i hope luck comes your way
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Hey girl! Do you get bullied? Either I didn’t know or I don’t remember… if so, why?
@One_day: Yes i have and i really dont know why i never did anything wrong.
Bullying isn’t about the person being bullied having done something wrong – it’s about the bullies making themselves feel good/powerful by making someone else feel bad. They pick on the ones that they think won’t fight back and/or have no-one else to help them.
I’m sorry you’ve been/are getting bullied.
I don’t understand bulling. I’ve never been bullied, and I’ve never understood the need to bully so both sides of the issue are totally alien to me. Can I ask, did your eating disorder come beofre or after the bullying? And the people who bully you – what are they like? do you think they are insecure in themselves? Or… are they just jerks pure and simple? are they jealous of you?
@One_day. it came before. but know im eating a lot more n~ n. They are just simple naive people who are loud and im pretty sure don’t have any respect for anyone who walks their path. And who would ever be jealous of me? i’m not even too fond about myself.
Well sometimes the qualities that other people admire about us are the very qualities that we can’t see, or don’t value because we take them for granted.
Hmm. Just been taking to a friend about his girlfriend taking him for granted… and how common that is… it’s just occurred to me that we take ourselves for granted in the same way.
You don’t want to be valued by simple people anyway. Simple people value boring or materialistic things. Personally I wouldn’t want to be either of those things. I hope the bullying doesn’t extend to violence. I also hope that there are other people around you who don’t follow the bullies and give in to peer pressure, and are able to see bullies as weak minded people… even if they can’t stand up to them, at least they don’t agree with their behaviour. I’m glad you are eating a bit more. Food is one of life’s simple pleasures. And you can’t hope to nourish the mind or the spirit if you’re unwilling to nourish the body. It’s chinese new year soon. I hope you can find a good chinese resturant in your neighbourhood.
lolz thankies although we dont go out to eat tho o~ o. And you are right although my friends dont notice it but i do, but i guess its best not to put others lives in danger o 3o. I hope you also have a good chinese new years too n~ n i hope luck comes your way