Everyone was just in a pissy mood with me today. I feel like this happens when I start to be happy around my friends…
I actually had a decent morning because I got back my pre cal test and I did really good on it, so I told one of my friends and they were like yay that’s great. But then I turn around and they’re all talking about me together and making it really obvious. I feel like if I’m not happy they’re always happy.
I think this sort of shows you the problem with the relationship you have with your friends… May want to share your feelings and thoughts, even if it’s a glimpse. If your assumptions are correct, why are you letting these people keep you down?? May not be easy to find some better friends, but I think it may be better than having “friends” that want you to be unhappy.
Yeah I don’t know, I’ve definatley thought about just being done with them and maybe meeting new people, but that’s really hard to do when I still have to face them every day..
Aye, ain’t it lovely school can put you in the best awkward times? Meh.
But really if you think these people can change and learn to support you, then I’d try that first. Otherwise, people who only want to see you down are not friends.
But you do mention how they do give you a “yay” for you good grade in pre calc( nice btw, wish I could’ve done that ) – maybe they just aren’t realizing how they are affecting you…
Yeah I highly doubt I can change that many people. Honestly that’s the kind of people they are, not just to me but to everyone.
And yeah, it was actually an 86 on that test but that’s the highest I will ever make so I’m good with it. Maybe they’re just mean and have nothing better to do… I don’t know I’m just tired of it
Try hanging out in a differnt spot, do u have semi-friends in another class u can hang out with? Heck eating lunch in the libary by yourself(aka y freshmsnn yr) is better thsn being around negative people
Yeah I have some people in my other classes who are kinda nice I could get to know. I also just don’t want to separate myself from them and then give them something to talk about.. Because that’s all they want really…
Also I don’t think you have to give them a big “F U” in order to separate yourself from them – which would definitely make things a bit more awkward and hostile. But I think teengirl has a point/idea that’s worth trying.
Hmm, how they are eh? Well aren’t they just screwy.
Naice, pretty sure that’s higher scores than I got in my Pre-Calc ha, so kudos and props. Hey now, no need to put yourself down, if you can achieve a 86, who is to say you can’t get a 90? or 100? Start thinking you’ll do bad and that’s how you’ll do, so got to keep positive with that sort of thing. You can do it 🙂
Hm if that’s the way they have to act to cure boredom…then sheesh, I see why you tire of them. Well then like I said, I don’t think these are the best friends nor do you seem to think that. So while they do create people that you know at school, are they the type of people you WANT to know and talk with? Think a new, more positive friend(s) would be better. So a new place to eat, or a club, or just start initiating some mini-conversations with classmates…or whatever tactic you please. You deserve some friends that support you.
Also I mean if it helps it isn’t that you have to break away all of a sudden from them. Maybe once you have a more stable friend or group of friends you can shove off from the other group of “friends”. Though don’t stay if you don’t like the environment they provide.
Sheesh I was only in Pre-Calc when I was a senior, but I’m just stupid and didn’t do so hot.
See, that’s a start. Good good.
Ah, well that’s understandable. As long as you get some support and have some real friends in your life, that’s good.
Well you only have one more life in high school, then you won’t have to deal with any of them ever again if you don’t want to.
I feel like no matter what group I’m in or who my friends are they’re going to gossip though. I don’t mean to sound arrogant but I feel like I’m too mature for some of the crap I deal with and people really need to grow up already..
Know exactly how you feel… But sometimes you just sort of have to grit your teeth and deal with those people. Or find a way to separate yourself from them. If you feel everyone is like this, well you can’t exactly get away from everyone. I’m sure there are some mature people – somewhere. But that’s generally high school right there. Don’t be too surprised if you find people like that in college, hopefully not, but if you do at least you can distance yourself a bit more easily.
And while some things are immature and childish, well I mean have some fun and such while you can – unless it’s not that sort of immaturity, that kind you can steer clear of.
Anywho… g’luck sarah.
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Mondays are awful, tuesdays are worse, wensdays are pityful, thursday are crap, and friday is when the shit hits the fan. What happened?
Everyone was just in a pissy mood with me today. I feel like this happens when I start to be happy around my friends…
I actually had a decent morning because I got back my pre cal test and I did really good on it, so I told one of my friends and they were like yay that’s great. But then I turn around and they’re all talking about me together and making it really obvious. I feel like if I’m not happy they’re always happy.
Misey does love company, ur friends r probably depressed themsevles and trying to bring u down…either that or she/he is a *****
Yeah..
I think this sort of shows you the problem with the relationship you have with your friends… May want to share your feelings and thoughts, even if it’s a glimpse. If your assumptions are correct, why are you letting these people keep you down?? May not be easy to find some better friends, but I think it may be better than having “friends” that want you to be unhappy.
but I know what you mean about horrible days and people who make you feel like crap…
Yeah I don’t know, I’ve definatley thought about just being done with them and maybe meeting new people, but that’s really hard to do when I still have to face them every day..
Aye, ain’t it lovely school can put you in the best awkward times? Meh.
But really if you think these people can change and learn to support you, then I’d try that first. Otherwise, people who only want to see you down are not friends.
But you do mention how they do give you a “yay” for you good grade in pre calc( nice btw, wish I could’ve done that ) – maybe they just aren’t realizing how they are affecting you…
Yeah I highly doubt I can change that many people. Honestly that’s the kind of people they are, not just to me but to everyone.
And yeah, it was actually an 86 on that test but that’s the highest I will ever make so I’m good with it. Maybe they’re just mean and have nothing better to do… I don’t know I’m just tired of it
Try hanging out in a differnt spot, do u have semi-friends in another class u can hang out with? Heck eating lunch in the libary by yourself(aka y freshmsnn yr) is better thsn being around negative people
Yeah I have some people in my other classes who are kinda nice I could get to know. I also just don’t want to separate myself from them and then give them something to talk about.. Because that’s all they want really…
Also I don’t think you have to give them a big “F U” in order to separate yourself from them – which would definitely make things a bit more awkward and hostile. But I think teengirl has a point/idea that’s worth trying.
Hell 86 on a pre calc test…im happy with a 70! R u a senior or an insanly smart junior?
Haha I’m a junior, thank you. But I’m so awful at math I should be back in algebra..
Hmm, how they are eh? Well aren’t they just screwy.
Naice, pretty sure that’s higher scores than I got in my Pre-Calc ha, so kudos and props. Hey now, no need to put yourself down, if you can achieve a 86, who is to say you can’t get a 90? or 100? Start thinking you’ll do bad and that’s how you’ll do, so got to keep positive with that sort of thing. You can do it 🙂
Hm if that’s the way they have to act to cure boredom…then sheesh, I see why you tire of them. Well then like I said, I don’t think these are the best friends nor do you seem to think that. So while they do create people that you know at school, are they the type of people you WANT to know and talk with? Think a new, more positive friend(s) would be better. So a new place to eat, or a club, or just start initiating some mini-conversations with classmates…or whatever tactic you please. You deserve some friends that support you.
Also I mean if it helps it isn’t that you have to break away all of a sudden from them. Maybe once you have a more stable friend or group of friends you can shove off from the other group of “friends”. Though don’t stay if you don’t like the environment they provide.
Sheesh I was only in Pre-Calc when I was a senior, but I’m just stupid and didn’t do so hot.
Yeah pre cal is death. That’s all I have to say.
Math sucks :/
See, that’s a start. Good good.
Ah, well that’s understandable. As long as you get some support and have some real friends in your life, that’s good.
Well you only have one more life in high school, then you won’t have to deal with any of them ever again if you don’t want to.
one more year* lol, not life.
and yes math is deadly.
Hahah yeah one more year, I’m so ready for college.
I hate gossipers, u should detacth urself noe b4 they get u in trouble or u get hurt
I feel like no matter what group I’m in or who my friends are they’re going to gossip though. I don’t mean to sound arrogant but I feel like I’m too mature for some of the crap I deal with and people really need to grow up already..
Know exactly how you feel… But sometimes you just sort of have to grit your teeth and deal with those people. Or find a way to separate yourself from them. If you feel everyone is like this, well you can’t exactly get away from everyone. I’m sure there are some mature people – somewhere. But that’s generally high school right there. Don’t be too surprised if you find people like that in college, hopefully not, but if you do at least you can distance yourself a bit more easily.
And while some things are immature and childish, well I mean have some fun and such while you can – unless it’s not that sort of immaturity, that kind you can steer clear of.
Anywho… g’luck sarah.
Haha okay thanks for the advice!
Mhm, glad to help 🙂
We’ll be here if you ever need to talk more and such.