Why Am I Apologizing?

You’re apologizing because your a better person. A good person treats thier friends well, a better person treats thier enemies with equal disposition. You act accoding to your own set of morals and ideals regardless of somone else’s actions. That is a sign of strength not weakness.

The best thing to do is lay everything out, logically and reasonably, don’t hold anything back. Most every problem between people comes down to a lack of understanding. There are things you wont compromise like your friendships or the stability of having a partner that wont cheat on you. If this is something that wont happen where you are then leave.

I dont actually know any details of your situation but try to think of why things have happened, why does he think that way and why did he sleep with another? Once you know why, then you can change those things if possible. If its something you cant change and something HE has to change, then either help him change it or leave. Try to stay calm too, anger leads to irrational thoughts and dumb mistakes which should be obvious from his actions.

When it comes to putting you down, they are just words. Words only hold wieght in the minds of those who listen to them. Its up to you whether to find truth in them or not. As someone who relies on logic more than anything I rarely let anything said get to me becuase unless someone provides adequate supporting evidence for me being an asshole I am inclined to not belief them.

-Hope things work out, MCB