Okay…This has been going on for a while now..My best friend has issues, I can tell but she wont let me in to help her, she knows all about my problems and is always there when I need her but now I wish she would let me in so I can help her. Whenever I ask her if she’s okay she says ‘yea’ but I know she’s lying to me, I really don’t understand…She knows I’ve went through similar stuff to her. And when I ask her again if she’s okay she turns away and walks off… I feel like she’s pushing me away for a reason but I don’t know what that reason is…Sure I’m suicidal but so is she, and she’s always been the one telling me to not give up, to contact her when I need too but when I say the same to her she just rolls her eyes and looks away. I mean what I say to her, why can’t she see that?…
share your suicide story
Report Post
Please log in to report posts
4 comments
Hi TearDropFantasy,
I’m going through the exact same thing so I know exacty what you’re feeling. I just posted my story about this not more than an hour ago. Like I said in my posts, I can’t take my own advice. But I think she actually appreciates it and she does see it. She just may not know what to say or do in response. That’s what I feel like my friend is doing to me. And I know what you mean- I’m suicidal too and he sees that. I just want you to know you’re not the only one going through this. Just hang in there for now, because that’s the only advice I can give to you that I can also accept for myself.
Thanks, its comforting to know I’m not the only one, and I’ll try to hang on… You hang on in there too!
you sound like a really good friend. I’m sure when your friend is ready she’ll open up. just keep showing her that you’re there for her (actions speak louder than words)
@messimaestro Okay, I will. Thanks for all the advice, it’s really helping 🙂