I need help.
But you need to know my story first. My mom got married for the second time in 2007. Everything was fine he was really nice and he had his own daughter who was younger than me and my sister. After 2 years everything started getting worst I’m going to 9th grade and he starts acting werid he tryed to beat my sister and she went off on him and told my real dad and he had a gone crazy too. But after a couple months he started to coming inti my room at night and well, doing stuff to me. This happened for about 2 painful years. I was so scared to tell anyone, my friends knew that i hated my stepfather but that’s all they knew. One of my friends suggested that i write about him and then publish it. I wrote everything he ever done to me right down to the day when he push to tell everything. That day he told me that no one will ever believe me and they may be able to take me away but he will get me back. And no one will ever love me after this. And for a couple of days I thought he was right he even told me that he will kill my mother if I told. I happy to say that I gave my mom the book I wrote on the weekend that I was going over my dads house with my older sister. That sunday we went to my aunts that was the last time I ever had to see him.
I still need help I feel that now I am depressed but I don’t know how to tell my family. I can’t just go and tell my mom: ” Hey I’m depressed”. So if anyone had any ideas let me know.
if your mom believed you when you gave her the book and did the right thing by making sure you never had 2 c him again then of course she will understand if you sit down and talk 2 her some people get depressed for no reson but others like you have a reason to be depressed you went through a lot and you’re very brave so just sit down and you dont even have 2 say the word depressed just tell her that you’re very down and stressed and i’m sure that she’ll do whatever she can to help you
my mum used 2 go out with this guy but she never married him he lived with us and he never did anything 2 me like that but i h8ed him and he would always say things 2 my mother aboout me that werent always true 2 try and get me in trouble and he would call me names and be mean 2 me behind my mothers back but now theyre broken up and i’m glad he’s gone
im so ……. Happy for you, you had the strenght to give your mother the book, i didnt see that comming, you must a very strong person, seriously, most people just say nothing they are too scared and afraid but you did it anyway. I am so happy proud and glad for you.
Telling your mother is exactly what you should do, she protected you, she obiviously loves you and protect you again.
you need antidepressiants or some hardcore theraphy to get over what happened to you.
Tell her. Seriously, im a so impressed and happy for you. also try writing down 3 things every morning that you are greatfull for, as the list grows you have to think harder about what your thankfull for and over a few weeks this is start to alter your mind set to be more positive. it works, try it.
I hope you keep getting better.
Thank you to you both for those encouraging words.