i never thought my life would turn up to be so bad..my father was going through cancer had been with him throughout his treatment..but finally he passed away in january being the eldest in the family everything has come up to me.. I am 23 years old, and my fathers partner in business has been playing dirty tricks with me since my dad is not around. Theres noone to advice me now it has literally come to an extent where i get scared coming to office = i feel so waste feels like i hve nothing left in my life to do i just come to ofiice and sit in my father’s cabin because my fatehrs partner does not want me to involve in any operations of the business. sometimes i feel i should kill him and then kill myself. During my fathers last month he had fought with him to such an extent my father used to get nightmare’s literally waking up in the middle of the night and ask me that “The partner will leave our family on streets and would be left completely on mercy”.
Just to let everyone know, my father had started this company and everyone knows in the company that my father had driven the business on massive levels not his partner. But still all the employees favor him because he give them extra money to work only accordingly.
I dont knoe what to do, one side i feel the responsibilty for my family on the other side i just want to end my life to get relieved of this feeling.
I love my dad i miss him everyday. Today, he not being around me makes me understand the importance of him being around me.
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Fathers are important and I’m sorry for your loss. This business is it like a family business? Why is it so important to keep the business instead of selling your half? You shouldn’t have to work there if you don’t want to. Put your foot down. This partner needs to know that he cant push you around. If you have some advantage over him use it and assert yourself. He is trying to find your weakness, finding out if you can handle this, and seeing if he can run and control you and the business. Killing him and yourself doesn’t really do anything good. He is just being a strong, even though mean, businessmen. Your grieving which is totally normal and is actually good so its normal to feel like crap. I know you make your dad very proud by trying. Fierce Love<3
It was a family business, but my father seperated himself during his treatment his brother’s behaviour changed towards him. Everybody considered money first. My father had also stated to his partner that he is chosing him above his brothers so he expects a lot from him to standby his family when he isn’t around. Today if I leave this company I haven’t got any other income source.its my fathers company who has worked hard for it and the partner had put in no efforts for the company. But I have also started a new company due to this insecurity which is owned by me. I feel if I sell my half in this economy I shall not be able to reap fruits as I can a year later.
get a lawyer asap. time is of the essence.
hope you feel better