Everyday of my life is to please everyone else. But for every fake smile i put on my face to fool the stupid people i see, the more i die inside. I cant take it anymore. Being the “nice guy” never helped me with anything. I always have girls tell me “You’re way to nice”, and i ask “Is there something wrong with that?”, and they always say “Nah, i just wish i had a guy like you”. Well why dont they ever want me? They always say they want a nice guy, but then they go after the big douche bag that treats her like shit. And when i ask “what about us?”, its always “sorry you’re just not my type”. I dont understand. Why cant nice guys finish first for just once? Why do women always say one thing, but do another? Why do i have to do all the fucking listening, but no one gives a shit about what i have to say?? Why does everyone else get to be happy, while im always depressed and alone? I wish i was an asshole, then maybe i would have someone to love me. Because god knows being nice doesnt get you shit. All it does is bring you one disappointment after another. I just wish that this would all be over, and im just so tired of helping others, and getting no help for myself. Till then im just going to keep being to nice for my own good, because thats the only way i know how to live my life. Just wish it wasnt such a horrible way to live. Or maybe there’s something wrong with me.
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sometimes i think the only way you can get by in this world is to grow mean, its is such a good thing that you are nice, i use to be the nicest girl ever,but so much happened i strated acting cold, one day them girls are gonna get so sick of being treated like shit, that they will come to you,the best come wen your not looking,i may have changed, but i am a girl, people tend to take advantage of girls more, atleast from my expierence, but i didnt change because of them i changed for me and my saftey, so what i wanna say is, dont change for anybody, there will be someone out there,there has to be
Well its not like i want to be nice, its just my nature. Inside im pretty much dead and jaded and dont really trust anyone from years of disappointment. But I always have a fake smile on, and cant help myself but help those that feel the need to take advantage of me and give nothing in return. Maybe its for self gratification? So i can say, “Hey this world is a shithole, but hey at least i helped a few people”. But where’s my help? But maybe you’re right. Maybe one day i’ll be lucky enough to find someone that is fed up with the assholes and come to me when i least expect it. Maybe i’ll find some kind of solace in the near future. Just gotta play the waiting game till then i guess. Thanks…
Women often are attracted to mean men, but in most cases it doesnt last with men like that. Any sensible woman soon gets tired of that and the excitment ends. Friends continue.
All good relationships start with friendship. If you can be a good friend to people friendships develop into romance and these romances are worth the wait!
Be who you are. You dont want anyone who cant love you for who you trully are. Confidence is the key!
@sensitiveskin: Yeah i get what you mean. Its just lately i’ve been so damn negative because i had my heart broken by 2 different girls almost a day apart from each other. One being my first and only ex who i still love but i found out she moved on. Then by this other girl who i work with who i like, and i was led to believe that she had the same feelings, but she randomly changed her mind and basically is the reason why i wrote this(i dont want to go into all the details). But ima get out of this slump soon. But thank you, you’re words mean alot.
I feel the same way; this guy said he wanted to go to this concert and he told me to get tix…so I buy tickets, and the next day he tells me he had something on his calendar for that day he didn’t see before so he prob can’t make the concert…why do I always do what people tell me to do? It is really annoying. Well at least I still have a few weeks to sell the dang tickets online because no one else wants to go with me!
And as for mother’s day, I order those fancy $50 berries for my mom (last year didn’t do anything for her other than a meal but she expected me to plan something even before Mother’s Day Sunday; that’s why I’m like this time I will do something differently). So the package arrives yesterday afternoon and she asks me what it is for, she had no idea it was Mother’s Day…and then she was all saying she would rather have had something else and some junk. Everything I do is never good enough. All people do is complain and take, and not appreciate. Just at the bottom of the totem pole perpetually. Why am I even here?
Ok….
If your a guy and having problems meeting girls and you think it’s cause your to nice it can be a couple of things.
1. If you’re young it takes some practice to get your groove on dating wise, we called it courting in the old days, it’s the role you play to attract a mate.
2. It’s true! We call it running with the wolves. Girls love bad boys, really! Trouble is once you get close suddenly the girls want you to be mr. Nice guy, mr. Mom. This happens after the courting stage in he nesting stage.
This crazy weird dating stuff makes sense from the viewpoint of anthropology but prob doesn’t help you now.
But here’s a tip, from the Master.
You don’t have to be mean, you just need a little edge, a little mystery, and you need to be assertive, not aggressive, but assertive.
Good luck
Could try getting them drunk so that they are less of a challenge.
two words in this discussion are absolutely key – Confidence and Assertiveness. Or in other words, Backbone and Decisive … the girls like the “bad boys” because they act decisively and with confidence. it’s a trait those with sureness and resolve have … and unfortunately can sometimes be those who are selfish and uncaring … in a word “bad” … but that doesn’t mean good, caring and selfless people can’t also be confident and assertive … it all in how it’s applied.
you can DO it
sure dawg