i am not asking to be judged,or told if its right or wrong,i am asking in my shoes what you think is worse,,,,,if sombody hurt you really bad,and they walked out of your life,then down the road,they wanted to come back in your life,what would hurt more,if you were them,if you didnt even acknoloage the person that hurt you,not even respond,or tell them how they are fake and you will never trust them again,and ask them if you are the only one they hurt and lied to,then tell them to stay the fuck away from you and tell them they are dead to you,???
ignoring hurts the most for sure. 🙁
Doesn’t matter what hurts the more. I once believed in revenge. But now I see it only hurts you too. Now I would let that feeling go. Of course I am still impulsive man, I don’t know how about you. So sometimes I end up with instant revenge. So since you have a will to post it here and just think about it. I would suggest to guide him/her out of your life in peaceful manier.
It depends on what they did. I would ignore them completely and not even acknowledge their existence.
I’ve missed you. I hope you didn’t get locked up. I was going to send you an email but thought you might have moved on with your life.
But yeah, I did notice you hadn’t been around.
I think telling them how you feel would hurt them more than just ignoring them. It might help you too to tell them what they did was hurtful. I wouldn’t want you to feel more pain but depending on what they did, I would recommend you tread lightly and avoid being vulnerable to them again.
its not that want to get even,its that i want to show them that they hurt me in the best way possible.and im trying to let go but its hard wen your in the same city it all happened,it will be better wen i move though,