Yesterday I lost my closest friend. He just stopped talking to me, he won’t reply to me, and he usually replies really fast.
I know he hates me, but I don’t understand why.
He happens to be best friends with my worst enemy, and she tweeted indirectly “So glad he has finally seen your true colours”, but the thing is that I haven’t done anything that could make him angry at me.
He really liked me, and I don’t feel the same way about him, and when I told him that, he hated me, but then we sorted it out. He said he cared about me (we were best friends after all), but now he has just disappeared. He has walked out of my life.
The worst part is that he has left with no explanations, and no reasons. If he truly cared about me; he wouldn’t be so quick to take whatever someone says about me, and believe it. If he wanted to know something, he could have asked.
He wanted to know why I would never tell him about personal things (depression, self harm, etc), well, this is why.
I knew something like this would happen. I’ve gotten used to it.
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It can be really tough to be “just friends” with someone you fancy.
I can understand that, but that whole argument was last year, so I don’t think he would hold a grudge against me for it:(
Sorry to hear that you’ve lost your friend. Maybe he wants to be a relationship and is tired of being ‘just friends.’ I sure know I am in that position.
Well, you know best, but unless you’re a really good mindreader, it’s an avenue worth exploring if you get to talk to him.
It needn’t be a grudge, but from personal experience, old crushes die hard.
But the thing is that I can’t see why he would like me like that, so I figured that he was already over it :/ and I’m also kinda scared to try and talk to him again, seeing as he has ignored my most recent messages:(
this is not done dear that he likes you and you want him to be your best friend.look dear he loves you and you have really given him a lot of pain just by telling him that you don’t have feelings for him.he is just running away from you to survive.after all he is also human and he also has emotions.and it seems you don’t respect his emotions…
and what do you mean by if he really cared about you…
have you cared about him and his emotions and his feelings….
I do respect his emotions and I care about him too, but I just don’t think he should bother wasting time on me because I’m seriously not worth it