I’m not trying to be a dick or anything, but it’s just a moment’s revelation that is slowly turning my life around right now and I thought it would be nice to share and get the ideas of other people.We, the ones on this site, usually have no meaning in life, think ourselves a failure, have had (to many different levels) experienced traumatic events or had our lives ruined by someone or thing, and are now seemingly left without many options. Our lives cannot, and will not get better. It will always be like this.
But, HAVE YOU ACTUALLY TRIED TO FIX THINGS? Of course, many of you will say (and be correct in saying) that you have done as much as possible to make life better by sacrificing many things in your lives. And I agree with this completely for those who really deserve to say that.
However, there are an equally many number of people on this site who probably are simply…should I say, whining about things that aren’t going well in life simply because they themselves haven’t done anything (much) about it. Think about it. Can you actually say that you’ve done everything possible to fix something in your life?
I realized that I myself was simply whining about having this girl that I liked who doesn’t seem to like me back. I kept asking myself “Why?”. Then suddenly, it hit me. I wasn’t talking to her, I wasn’t spending time with her, I was practically AVOIDING her. Of course nothing’s going to happen, you’re not doing anything!! As soon as I realized this, I also realized how many other things in life were going wrong or not happening simply because all I was doing was complaining and being depressed about them. Sure, some things are quite valid, but there were things that I could have done to improve my life – things that I didn’t do.
So, all I’m saying here is that maybe we should actually work to make something happen, maybe a little harder than you already have, before falling to the ground screaming and crying, going on about how things just can’t be done.
I know that for many people, they HAVE done everything they can and that life is just too bad for them…But to the others, the one who just got the blues and felt no reason to life…Maybe we should give it another try, put in some more effort and see how things come out.