Something to Smile About

Hey guys! I’ve noticed a lot of negative energy surpassing my computer screen and mingling with my mind reading your life stories. I honestly think that it’s time we change our ways or at least attempt to make our lives brighter. Many of us are young and struggling with the convoluted ways of life while others are a bit older, wondering how you made it this far. Many of us don’t know what to do with life; you’re simply stuck. Many of us were/are sexually, mentally, verbally and physically abused. Many of us feel  like life is nothing but a tragedy. (Trust me, I’ve been everywhere you have).  However, if we don’t make the  efforts ourselves  to change our perspectives on life, no one else will. It’s time to escape the grasps of sadness! You have to conquer life rather than have life conquer you. No one wants to loose a battle. All of us are drained, some more than others. When you’re old and frail, you’ll look back at life and envision it as a short commercial break. Time flies. Years go by. The clock never stops ticking. When you’re on your death bed, you sure don’t want to be looking back at how life has dragged on. You need to be constantly engaging in something you absolutely love to do- and somethings that you HAVE to do (like fight your problems. Wrestle with life and most of all, be a rebel. Be stubborn and don’t let life win for all the shit it has given you). We can have a thousand reasons to take our lives but if we find that one reason to live for, life will become a blessing.

If you’re young and struggling, trying to untangle yourself from the wires of life, think for a second. Life isn’t designed for you to understand it completely. It has its twists and turns; all you simply need to put your hands in the air, like its a roller coaster and let life look at you with jealousy because you are enjoying the ride it throws at you. We’re all scared and fearful, but if you act like you aren’t, you’re going to become what you act like.

If you’re wondering how you made it this far, think for a second. You may have tried to end your life and it hasn’t been successful; think for just a second. Has it ever crossed your mind that life keeps you here in a cold world because you have warmth to give it by fulfilling your destiny? You have your task to complete, and trust me, it’ll be a story to tell your grandchildren. Your future is embroider with golden laces; No one’s life is a waste. There is a purpose you’re here for. If you don’t go looking for it, it won’t come to you. (And maybe if you’re tired, I guess you can stand around and wait a little 😉

If you don’t know what to do with life, think for a second. Theres something you ought to love. A passion and talent thats buried in the mess you created life to be. Even if people discard your talent, hobbies, and passion to be worthless, if you love it, nothing else matters. You’ll find happiness, and that’s all you need to sustain your mind- Not the money, sex, friends, love.

If you were abused in your past and maybe you still are, think for a second. Change your situation. Inform a trusted adult, and even if you loose everything you had, you’ll be in a better place. Things in the past has to stay in the past. You can’t look at the step ahead of you if you keep turning around. You need to take the initiative yourself to take a leap and hope for the best. The past will always come back to haunt you, but treat it like a horror story that you’ve seen 10 times 😉  It won’t be scary.

And if you can’t find a reason to be happy about, then look around you. Go outside, take a walk. Smile at a stranger. Take a seat at the park and watch innocent kids playing and crying at childish things and Smile at the simplicity of life.

Life pushes you to the edge to either teach you how to fly or catch you when you fall ;] SMILE!