is it weird to be thinking about music at my funeral? don’t know where this came from but i decided i wanted ” the sound of silence”Â old or new version played at my funeral. don’t know where this idea came from. i want to express my sorrow for those people who died in the psych hospital fire in russia. by pure chance i am a “nutjob” in a first world country. some of the russian patients died in their beds. sedated.Â sick.