My name is John I still feel depress after 10 months my ex gf dump and say ” left me alone “……. I can’t be happy I don’t know why…..she don’t contact me anymore. since she dump me but still I have her friend in my facebook and Yahoo sometimes I saw her and i feel really bad about it but I can’t eraser her I don’t have the guts…. I miss her a lot but still I don’t wanna she back
I don’t wanna back with her anymore she is not worth it but still I miss her …..I know sound dumb I been with psychics some things come true about financial things and health and some events but love life never been accuracy at all…..they told me she will be back but when ? but they never been accuracy at all but everything else they do……  I don’t know what I can do.
I wanna moved on, I try to be happy but is like fake happiness with a smile but I’m not happy at all. I doin work out, studying PC,  I’m improve my English and I starter talk with girl and make new friends….. But still I can’t move on I back the same vicious circle of my ex gf.
I’m asking myself she was the only made me happy ? Is not one over there to fill in her space ? she is the one ?
I really need advices, stories whatever to rip off the memory of this women….I’m tired honestly to be like this.
Thanks for you help.
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I know it’s hard to get over someone. I don’t think you should use her to make yourself happy because if she leaves the void opens up again. Maybe write a list of things of why you shouldn’t be together and write on here as much as you feel like doing.
If you want you can email me
I don’t wanna depend of love of no one ever again don’t missundertant me yes I would like have gf and married will be nice! but not like be my everything is really annoying this sensation. I wanna like someone we share things but not depend of love you know.
I really wish have some money to going to a psychiatric thing or something. Or meet person like me like a interventions but for hearth breakers….
Thanks for your support !
hmm maybe check your community to see if there’s free local psychiatric help and sorry I didn’t mean to assume
Let me ask. What is it realy u miss about her. I was the same way over a women that I was with for 4 years. I miss her and want her I though. But what I realy wanted was the love she gave me. But it was a false love that eas not real. Or she would be with me today. We all have our poisons or demonds. In the end nothing maters we are born alone and we are lucky to be able to share moments of our life with a few chosen people. It doesn’t matter what u have or how much money or gold u have. So remember. Just enjoy this life to the fullest and maybe put Jesus as your first love. Then your girl friends second. Makes life easyer. And just remember if ur thinking of her your x and not of God. When u die ur worshiping ur x girl friend. At that moment in life. Somthing to think about.
@bryan it’s true what you say about was not real love if she really loved you she will be with you today or fix the things between you together, I really wish my ex gf workout the things together and not ran away like she did I was a good man, I went her country 2 times I put her first than my family, I always support her, I’m a hard worker I never cheat it her, no smoke or drugs or alcohol, I’m not so than religious way but still I believe in god, I love my family….. I don’t know what happen ? is like good person never will win….I really feel hurt right now the fact I did everything for this relationship and she did nothing at in the end like the things I did for her never count…..I really felt is betrayed like I was using after she break up with her ex bf so I came her life she told me things like I really fix her and love her like no one did to her but in the end she dump me….I felt used it. Like she is a player.
I really hope I can over this pain I have I really felt broken heart ……
Dude you sound pretty young. I know that because you sound like you don’t yet understand that “this too will pass”. As you get older you experience all sorts of difficulties and you can after maybe many years then actually laugh at them. I don’t want you to judge yourself, but only assess where your at as a person, then grow from the misery you feel. Learn to turn your hardships into yet another life lesson. Maybe that is what life is here to do? To frustrate us, we all have this idea of how life and everything in it should behave. However as you grow a little older you begin to realise that is delusional.
The lesson in life is really just to accept what is, its a lesson I’m still learning. And yes I’ve been on the edge of suicide but persevered with the pain and now after many, many months with help now quite like life and even myself 🙂
Just know that this too will pass, any old person will know this because they have experienced this.