General I think I’m In Love….. With A Sociopath by ItGirl 7/4/2013 written by ItGirl 7/4/2013 This isn’t going to be a long post…but if anyone else is dating a sociopath and is having difficult getting out, or if you have advice..please text me, I’m trying to get all the help and gain all the strength I can. <3 605-484-5094 DatingLoveLtSociopath 12 comments 0 Email Related posts :://:/::: 8/18/2022 tonight 8/18/2022 Train to Routine-Town 8/17/2022 Self Reflection or Lurking About, Lost in Thought 8/17/2022 not better, just better at dealing 8/17/2022 8/17/2022 8/16/2022 Nykthos, shrine to Nyx 8/16/2022 why am i still here? 8/16/2022 8/16/2022 12 comments RealTalk30 7/4/2013 - 2:31 pm If your sure you want to get away, and if its really that bad, you have to use every resource you can to get away from this person. Family ,friends, cops and anyone who can help protect you. Tell them to go away or you’ll put the hurt on them..even if its just a bluff. Don’t let them trap you. You have to hit them with everything possible all at once, anything you can do to keep them away. And of all else fail.. Grab something really hard and solid and nail him over the head..pack your shit while they are unconscious, and get the hell out of town. Stay with some one far away for a few weeks and they will be gone when you get back. Do what you have to, is what I’d say. Log in to Reply ItGirl 7/4/2013 - 2:41 pm Thank you for the advice : ) Log in to Reply butterfly_free 7/4/2013 - 2:48 pm Be really careful because if they are a sociopath they are very dangerous. They dont have normal feelings, are cruel and will tell you anything. So convincing. Look at how they act maybe, more than what they say. They lie like nothing. Maybe explain things in a message, block their number and lie low? Log in to Reply killswitchon 7/4/2013 - 2:53 pm Run like hell. Log in to Reply DeathDreamer 7/4/2013 - 3:23 pm I used to date a sociopath. I got one word for you. RUN Log in to Reply noonoo12 7/4/2013 - 3:28 pm killswitchon and DeathDreamer are right. You will end up in the shitter if you don’t. Run like the fucking wind. Good luck. Log in to Reply butterfly_free 7/4/2013 - 5:18 pm Forget what I wrote before. The others are right. Run. Log in to Reply butterfly_free 7/4/2013 - 5:18 pm Forget what I wrote before. The others are right. Run. Log in to Reply Scar504 7/4/2013 - 5:28 pm If the person you’re “in love” with is truly sociopathic, then he almost certainly does not love you; moreover, he’s a danger to you. I would advise you to leave the relationship as swiftly and amicably as possible utilizing (as real talk mentioned) any resources necessary. Log in to Reply cyanidesofmarch 7/4/2013 - 6:46 pm Can’t say much that hasn’t already been said. Except (this is important) DON’T PISS OFF THE SOCIOPATH. Nothing good ever comes from pissed off sociopaths. Fix him up with one of your hot friends, then fade into the shadows. Log in to Reply cyanidesofmarch 7/4/2013 - 6:47 pm Btw I was totally kidding about fixing him up with a friend. Fix him up with an enemy instead. Log in to Reply clevername 7/5/2013 - 12:55 am to complicate the situation: Fix him up with a “hot” enemy. “a friend is just a known enemy.” And finally, let’s not forget that sociopaths are not choosing to be monsters, they are simply born that way. They are technically disabled, though in a way that often does indeed make them “dangerous” to others. But we’re all human here. We’re ALL “dangerous” to others. Where you draw the line is based on your expectations of this world. Honestly, you, and anyone else who stays in an abusive relationship, get what’s coming to you. You can choose to remain abused, or you can choose to fight for the change you claim to want. The one useful thing we can all learn from a sociopath, is that we need to control our emotions, and behave in whatever way we are expected to behave, in order to achieve the results we want to manifest. Harsh as fuck, and twice as true. You can’t just wait around hoping things magically go your way. You have to figure out what you want, how to do it, and decide to act on it… or the world will decide for you, what the outcomes will be. I checked your username and saw that your last post is listed as a year ago. You’ve been with this same abusive “sociopath,” the entire time, still, after all that? It’s just not that hard to leave someone. Apparently, you’re benefiting from the relationship, somehow, or you would have been long gone. The hard part is accepting that they are not, and will never be, who you wish they were (which is often who they pretend to be, to gain your approval and affection). Log in to Reply Leave a Comment Cancel ReplyYou must be logged in to post a comment.Subscribe to comments: Don't subscribe All Replies to my comments Notify me of followup comments via e-mail. You can also subscribe without commenting.