GeneralRebelliousSoul are you ok? by cyanidesofmarch 9/7/2013 written by cyanidesofmarch 9/7/2013I really liked the posts you made today, but they’re all gone. 33 comments 0EmailRelated postsPandora 2/29/2020Turning off the stars 2/29/2020Back from the dead 2/28/2020One mistake 2/28/2020Slow, dull, boring 2/28/2020weak 2/28/2020 2/28/2020Middle Aged 2/28/2020after all that… TW domestic abuse & drugs 2/27/2020 2/27/202033 comments people_do_care 9/7/2013 - 7:50 pmThat person started telling everyone to kill themselves and all that good stuff then just deleted all their stuff Log in to Reply cyanidesofmarch 9/7/2013 - 7:52 pmWhoa… I missed a lot Log in to Reply PainNlife 9/7/2013 - 7:55 pmSo did I when did this happen? Log in to Reply people_do_care 9/7/2013 - 8:06 pmI think maybe around 1 or 2pm Log in to Reply PainNlife 9/7/2013 - 8:08 pmwhat made them flip out? Log in to Reply cyanidesofmarch 9/7/2013 - 8:09 pmYeah that’s bizarre because all her posts that I saw were very positive & encouraging about how love can cure many of our problems. Log in to Reply people_do_care 9/7/2013 - 8:18 pmI’m not really sure, he/she kinda just blew up on everyone and was saying that we should all kill ourselves and no one cares about us, maybe the site blocked her? I thought she was positive to that’s why I was confused o.o Log in to Reply PainNlife 9/7/2013 - 8:21 pmShe probably did get blocked…. but jeesh what made her snap like that was she bipolar or something? Usually they are known for flipping on people like that. Log in to Reply wishingthiswasover 9/7/2013 - 8:26 pmIt’s so strange. Maybe she deleted her account and comments/posts. Log in to Reply cyanidesofmarch 9/7/2013 - 8:26 pmI’ve been known to flip out on occasion… usually in real life which sucks because you can’t exactly delete what you’ve said :/All the same, there could be other explanations like maybe someone hacked her account, or someone else jumped on the computer. I just hope everyone’s ok. We’re all pretty sensitive hence the reason we’re here I guess Log in to Reply wishingthiswasover 9/7/2013 - 8:28 pmI hope she’s alright Log in to Reply noonoo12 9/7/2013 - 8:30 pmShe most likely “flipped” because she was being confronted for telling strangers she loved them, when she couldn’t, because she didn’t know them. Got called ignorant for saying she’d been through and seen “enough”. Made another post saying that she had tried to be a good spirited person, but she was done with humanity now. Then another about how we should kill ourselves. And a final one, asking how to delete all her posts.Maybe some other shit I missed. Log in to Reply wishingthiswasover 9/7/2013 - 8:32 pmUh oh. I’ve been on all day and somehow I missed all of this :/ Log in to Reply people_do_care 9/7/2013 - 8:33 pmDoesn’t really matter if she flipped or not she doesn’t have the right to talk to anyone on here the way she was. Log in to Reply people_do_care 9/7/2013 - 8:35 pmPeople have been being so rude on here lately, its unflattering and immensely annoying, I have bad days and flip out very often but I don’t take it out on suicidal people -.- Log in to Reply PainNlife 9/7/2013 - 8:36 pmI told her that but I didn’t call her ignorant or insult her in any way I just said it wasn’t possible to love people she didn’t know but I didn’t scold her or say anything abrasive. I just said she liked us but not love….I don’t think that was reason to snap and start telling people to kill themselves….I mean personally she wasn’t doing any harm to me because I am going to do it anyway but there are others here on edge and things like that can push them over. Log in to Reply wishingthiswasover 9/7/2013 - 8:38 pmLike me O.o Log in to Reply people_do_care 9/7/2013 - 8:39 pm@PainNlife you’re a nice guy, and I have yet to see you be mean. Log in to Reply PainNlife 9/7/2013 - 8:43 pmYeah I mean sometimes I disagree with people but I try not to come off as an asshole or douche bag. Log in to Reply cyanidesofmarch 9/7/2013 - 8:44 pmPNL you’ve always been helpful to me. I doubt that was it. Log in to Reply wishingthiswasover 9/7/2013 - 8:45 pmWho knows. There are so many possibilities. I just hope she’s okay Log in to Reply imonlyaman 9/7/2013 - 8:45 pmwhen people’s advice or attempts to help are rejected that usually happens…although she was being unnecessarily antagonized at one point..i should’ve said something Log in to Reply clevername 9/7/2013 - 8:46 pmShe was the lesbian who blew her college money on a girl who then ditched her for some guy and got pregnant. (threw a $6k ring on the ground in the dark…)She was posting some very questionable overly-positive responses and seemed to not really understand or accept any perspective that wasn’t her own. A few people GENTLY challenged her, and she flipped out. I’ve seen people give and take far worse hard times around here, i’ve even been the recipient of several of them myself. This girl was clearly unstable, and not ready to confront the harsh truths of reality (which actually never even had a chance to be discussed!).I think the trigger was the topic of “love,” and how you can’t really “love” someone you don’t know, and the fact that there are various types of “love,” and also that if you just go around claiming to “love” everyone, then the value becomes diminished, and it won’t really mean anything. Or something along those lines.I may have inadvertently contributed to her explosion, but i was honestly trying to be as gentle and diplomatic as possible, unlike my typical abrasive approach.I saw that she didn’t seem to be understanding what people were trying to say, figured she was young, figured that i shouldn’t bother, and stated that i didn’t think she was ready to understand certain things. Honestly, i remained as tactful as i could be, without simply refraining from commenting at all… next thing we know, she’s posting multiple posts about not caring anymore, and angrily telling everyone to just go kill themselves. It was pretty bizarre. Minutes later, her posts were deleted, or at least hidden.It really did seem like a blatant and disproportionately severe over-reaction, possibly indicative of a “bipolar” mood swing. I saw no reason for such counter-aggression. The simple fact is that some people disagreed with a few things, and attempted to point them out, at which point she became hostile.In all seriousness, she’s going to need thicker skin than that, in order to have any chance to make it in this world. I can barely imagine how much harder life would be, if i flipped out every time someone on the internet said something i didn’t like.Some of you people infuriate me sometimes, but i think flipping out and telling everyone to kill themselves (especially on SP!) is just taking it way too far.Anyway… that’s pretty much what happened, from my perspective. Log in to Reply noonoo12 9/7/2013 - 8:46 pmI think she wasn’t expecting the resistance to what she was trying to get across. Log in to Reply wishingthiswasover 9/7/2013 - 8:46 pmHey imonlyaman… If ya get bac on Facebook il finish talking to u. Log in to Reply wishingthiswasover 9/7/2013 - 8:49 pmI just had to go for a second Log in to Reply imonlyaman 9/7/2013 - 8:52 pm@clever i noticed what you said to her wasn’t to far at all. I had no idea of her past history of posts either. hmm. too bad some people really just want to help, although i do agree with the fact that the word “love” is thrown around like canadian snowballs. frivolously.@wishing ill get back on then (: Log in to Reply wishingthiswasover 9/7/2013 - 8:53 pmYay:) ill find my reasoning in ur message lol Log in to Reply PainNlife 9/7/2013 - 8:58 pmWell hopefully she calms down and comes back. I wasn’t trying to make her feel bad. I just wanted her to understand something thats all Log in to Reply clevername 9/7/2013 - 9:17 pmYeah, that’s the thing; i don’t think anyone “wanted her to feel bad.” I certainly didn’t. I generally assume that people who come here, likely already feel more than bad-enough. It’s just that this place exists because often we encounter circumstances where almost everything makes us feel bad, and /one more thing/ could push us over the edge. Sometimes getting to the source, to understand the problem well enough to devise effective solutions, does in fact feel bad. When someone is not ready to feel any worse, not ready for the pain of the journey to the source, all you can really do is hope they stabilize soon enough that understanding can still be reached, while problems can still be solved. Some problems can only be “solved” by learning to cope and effectively manage them, so that carrying a terminal illness (whether psychological or physical), has the least possible negative impact on progress.It’s always unfortunate when “the world” pushes people past their coping capacity… but as we here know all too well, it certainly happens far too often, and isn’t likely to just stop, today, or anytime soon. Log in to Reply jswissman 9/7/2013 - 10:35 pmWell I guess I missed all of that…may have been that post where I tried to explain that agape love (love for humanity) is abstract/general and this was the only type that you could apply to strangers.Haven’t been on here too long, but I haven’t really seen anyone being an asshole–yet lol. Log in to Reply Duke of Marmalade 9/8/2013 - 2:13 amIt’s not fair that she got blocked.You idiots fucked up the site.Have it, have it.This is my last comment. Log in to Reply people_do_care 9/8/2013 - 9:16 amShe deleted all her shit like she said she was going to. And @Duke of Marmalade don’t throw stones when you live in a glass house. Log in to Reply Leave a Comment Cancel ReplyYou must be logged in to post a comment.Subscribe to comments: Don't subscribeAllReplies to my comments Notify me of followup comments via e-mail. You can also subscribe without commenting.