Cheaters

Hello everyone,Ive been on this site for more than a year now and ive read allot of stories on here from allot of different people,but the ones that are most common(in my opinion) would be from people in their teens talking about how they want to end their life because their boyfriend/girlfriend cheated on them.Im a 37 year old male and I used to think that was stupid (well I was never in that position as a teen to get cheated on,late bloomer lol) anyway i had time to reflect on my life and think about things over this holiday,and i have to say that getting cheated on by anyone at any age is not a good feeling at all.wait wait i know what you’re thinking WELL DUH! right? but hear me out,When you’re a teenager you’re really vulnerable, you are learning about life,your going through puberty,I mean so many diffrent things are happening to you.You’re making the transition from childhood into adulthood and that’s not easy for anyone.and now you have this person that you think you love,that you want to spend the rest of your life with,cheat on you and you think is the end of the world.Painful i know,but i want to share my views from keeping this from happening to you.I say never commit to anyone 100% because, anything can happen!,people cheat on each other every single day,especially married people that’s why i think marriage is a joke,I see everyone that’s married and theyre miserable.I really think people who really love each other should have an “open” relationship,because let’s face it saying that you’re going to commit yourself to one person for the rest of your life and signing a contract and /or taking vows is laughable.These things never last,maybe 50 years ago,but the world is changing people are evolving and this is no longer the norm.You will meet allot of different people throught your life,and most people grow tired of one another after time or fall out of love.So making such a life comiment decision such as marriage at such a young age is very foolish.When you get into a relationship with a person whos been cheated on trust me,they already have all these negative views towards you and compare you to their ex-partner and they have their guard up,so right of the bat its like your paying for all of the stuff their ex did to them. Life sucks,i know but this is reality.