I feel so helpless

stating it doesn’t make it true. And since it isn’t, and you keep insisting it is, i can see you’re unwilling to adjust your interpretation of reality to be more accurate. In other words: you’re determined to misrepresent me, because you have a personal vendetta for some bizarre reason; as i just stated.

Oh look, you brought a cheerleader.

And you’re still missing the point of that quote, which was many months ago by now.

Like i said in a recent comment: those who disregard the difference between explanation and excuse, aren’t really worth the effort to explain anything.

Neither of you are worth my time.

And, i did not imply the OP was dumb… you simply inferred it.

I find it hilarious that you don’t even seem to realize that you using that quote merely proves my points against you. You’re being irrationally prejudiced against someone who has a different preference and different opinions, while claiming only your own preference is acceptable. I wonder when, or if, you’ll realize it.

Laugh at what you find humorous, i don’t mind.

I suppose i’d be irritated too, if i had carpet burn on my tongue. Just not sure how that translates to being my fault. I don’t think i should be blamed or attacked for what others choose to do with their own tongues.

It’s like duke said, not long ago: people have to fight fake evil they’ve invented, because fighting real evil is too scary and dangerous. I think people like to paint me as a villain, because the Real Villains are just too scary.

I do indeed support gender equality and women’s rights, just as i support mental health equality and men’s rights. To emphatically promote one over the other, would be… well, exactly what SB is doing, as she continues to pretend that is “equality.”

I dislike trannies, because i find it “weird” and “gross.” And that’s okay, because just like anyone, i’m entitled to my own opinion and preference. I don’t think people should mutilate their bodies due to believing they “should have been born the other sex.” I won’t condone or advocate it, but neither will i stop anyone. I will merely suggest they refrain from mutilating their own bodies. And at the same time, people like SB are entitled to lick as much carpet as they want, or even be racist, sexist, needlessly antagonistic hypocrites… just as i am entitled to disagree and protest it, because i dislike those things.

In case anyone can’t figure it out for themselves, I’m not the one chasing any certain user around the site, trying to convince everyone to give that person a harder time. I try to leave SB alone, but she’s determined to cause problems, based on her own self-justified irrationality. She’s the one trying to be antagonistic, not i.

I wonder how the feminism “movement” would fair, or what would become of it, if the alleged “patriarchy” they incessantly decry, did not actually exist, and was instead shown to be their own misinterpretation or even intentional misrepresentation of reality… their own false paradigm.

I see “problem>reaction>solution” here. It’s like they’ve created some phantom villain, in order to attempt to justify the solution they originally wanted to achieve. The reality is that even if such a “patriarchy” does exist, it is a MINORITY of Men, and is a group to which i am certainly not connected, nor would i ever endorse. And so, to be repeatedly antagonized over something that has nothing at all to do with me, is not just farcical, but completely arbitrary. I think the only reason i’m being singled out and attacked, is because she realized she doesn’t have an actual enemy, so she needed to create one, in attempt to artificially justify her own innate compulsion toward malice.

not scared of homos at all, just don’t swing that way. Not sure why you want me to be scared of it…

And i’m not racist either; never said anything disapproving of interracial couples. I personally find black girls aesthetically appealing (which doesn’t mean i find any non-black girl any less appealing). As it turns out, i’m not into any color of dude; go figure.

I’m not sure why SB wants this to be a personal issue, but apparently, she has personal issues, and wants them to become my issue.

Maybe i am indeed special, after all. I don’t see her treating others with such obsessive attentiveness.

If by homophobic, you mean “i don’t want to have sex with other men…” then i guess that’s true. But “phobic” comes from “phobia” which means “irrational fear,” which is not the case. I have no reason to fear homos. I’ve met plenty of them, of both genders, who seemed like perfectly decent individuals, to me.

I think you’re just having a hard time accepting that i’m not what you want me to be, nor am i what you want others to think i am.

“You used a homophobic slur against me, that’s an example of homophobia.”

No, that’s an example of “turnabout is fair play.” Also “you started it.”

You want to talk mad shit and then act like i’m terrible for countering in matching form, and then pretend to be superior just because you’re gay/bi/whatever.

It’s just stupid. Stop being stupid.

And i find it hilariously ironic that You of all people, want to act like you know the definition of “decent human being.” You are almost as low as it gets. You’ve been frothing for days now, over your own cognitive derangement. I think you should reassess yourself with a much higher degree of honesty, and consider what your needless antagonism and scapegoating actually says about you.

i can’t determine who is or isn’t a good person, based solely upon the amount of time spent on SP.

You are implying your superiority. I see it, and anyone with mental competence can see it. Anyone with above-competent intelligence can also see your completely arbitrary and unwarranted antagonism, and even that it’s apparently rooted in you believing homosexuality is somehow “superior,” due to the fallacious belief that homos are somehow inherently less prejudiced. But i could just as easily say that all homos are inherently prejudiced against the opposite sex. Stating it wouldn’t make it right… but it’s not necessarily wrong either.

And sure, maybe i am “prejudiced” against someone whose very identity makes them incompatible with what i desire. But if your preference is yours, then you don’t get to justifiably claim or accuse that i’m “prejudiced,” when it is you, in fact, who has already decided you don’t like something, and behaves accordingly.

If lesbians are lesbians, then why should i not think their preexisting preference (whether innate or otherwise) will not be a factor in any potential interactions we might share? It will obviously and definitely be a factor. Therefore, it is *correct* for me to assume “she wouldn’t want that with me,” and then behave accordingly. I don’t think it’s accurate to call that “prejudice,” because i can guarantee you, any girl’s preference for other girls, would not stop me from allowing her to make me an exception. But that’s pretty unlikely, so it’s only useful in the case of such an argument.

Ergo: you are at least as prejudiced as you accuse me of being, if not more. Therefore: you are a hypocrite.

And! The only reason i made that “carpet burn” joke, is because you repeatedly provoked me. Like i said: you want to talk mad shit and then get mad when you receive a comparable response.

“You can dish it out, but can’t take it.” By definition, that makes you “offensive.” You even had the audacity to command me not to defend myself against your repeatedly unwarranted and personal attacks.

So, like i said: you’re being irrational, not helping the case raised against you. You have some kind of personal vendetta against me, and i don’t even know why. I think you tried to explain it, but it really seemed like you’re just making any excuse to be a *****, because you just like being a *****, just because you think that’s “cool.”

If you just enjoy being a *****, i suppose that’s your prerogative… but it’s kinda stupid for you to then act like you don’t deserve to be insulted in similar ways to your own needlessly and incessantly instigated antagonism.

Like i said: i don’t chase anyone around any site, just trying to cause problems, just to be a *****, like you obviously feel entitled to do.

I still remember being informed of your little identity ruse… and i actually defended you, stuck up for you, and never once called you out on it.

And now, here you are, singling me out like you just need some kind of scapegoat to use as a target for the megabitch image you wish to portray to your e-peers.

I know enough to know that sometimes girls will claim to be lesbians when they’re more accurately Bi… in fact, i lived next door to a couple of “lesbians” for a while, and when they broke up, one moved out, and the other confessed her attraction to me, and claimed she had realized she was never actually gay, but was bi, and was now interested in guys. We drank together a few times, and something almost happened once… ended up not working out, but i don’t hate her. After some time had passed, she stopped by out of the blue one day, just because. By then, i was reeling with the results of the girl who ultimately ruined me.

And yes, it does indeed matter that i was provoked (lol at antagonist dismissing their own antagonism…).

But on the other hand, it wasn’t even intended to be insulting in the way you apparently interpreted. If you want to lick carpet, don’t blame me for your burnt tongue. The insult has nothing to do with your sexual preference, and everything to do with you being a ***** to me for no good reason. I guess you missed the point, because you were too hung up on sexuality, like any hypocritical sexist would be.

“What is so wrong with licking carpet?!?!?”

Nothing, unless you blame someone else for your burnt tongue.