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by StruggleOn

I hate having a friend that has a life.  It makes me feel so out of place.  Honestly, It’s like I need that person but they don’t need me.  It’s the truth, and it sucks.  Really, they are just there out of pity.  Pity, pity, pity. Fuck you, pity.

Yeah whatever.


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EvilOni22 4/25/2014 - 9:10 pm

Everyone needs someone whether they have a life or not. I am happy for those around me wether I know them or not that have a life. I wouldn’t want what’s happening to me to happen to anyone. It’s not pity either friend. And honestly if pity causes or allows someone to be a lil more kind to me or whatever because of what it helps them to see or understand about me, then I’m not rejecting it or pushing it away. I’ll respect their pity and accept it for what it is to me and them. Keep your chin up friend. I’ll try to do the same.

StruggleOn 4/25/2014 - 10:07 pm


Thank you so much, it really means a lot. I am definitely happy for all the good people I know and who “care”. They just may not be happy with who I am, and I don’t want to stick around them in that kind of a situation. But I get everything you’re saying. Maybe I should just accept it and roll with it instead of constantly worrying I’m not good enough. But I don’t know, it’s hard to stop from doing that a lot of the time.

Also, I’m glad to see you again, and good luck out there for yourself 🙂

Andrei 4/25/2014 - 11:33 pm

Fennec foxes.

StruggleOn 4/25/2014 - 11:42 pm


Shephard 4/26/2014 - 1:03 am

I feel ya. [VOICE OF EEORYE]: It’s always a pity party with me…

M 4/26/2014 - 1:18 am

You know, the time might come when your friend needs you, regardless of his “having a life” habilities, and hopefully you’ll be there for him then. He’s still your friend for a reason other than pity too (or at least i think so), since pity usually doesn’t last.

I used to distance myself from people who i suspected were with me out of pity, but i realized, hey, they leave me when they get tired of me anyways, so why rushing it? they still get my friendship while they want it so it’s a win-win.

StruggleOn 4/26/2014 - 9:27 am

That’s the point. They’ll never need me. They have tons and tons of other friends. Ones they knew longer, trust more, have more experience in life.

And here I just sit. The last person they’d go to.

Uptown234 4/26/2014 - 7:03 pm

I can understand how you feel some years ago things were really bad for me and it was sometimes painful to be around people who had it going so to speak… success and happiness that I didn’t have. It made me feel like such a loser and unworthy to be around them. I spent some years being kind of solitary because of it. but now things are better or me and I believe they will get better 4 you.

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