Stop, Take a Moment to Consider

To those who are thinking of killing thelmselves ….STOP…take a moment to consider the reality of what will happen.  Suicide is the single most selfish thing you could do.  The pain you feel right now will not be gone, it will simply be transferred to the people you leave behind.  They will never have a chance to say “I love you” again, they will never have a chance to give you a hug or a pat on the back for something good you may not have even known you were doing, they will never have a chance to tell you a joke and see your beautiful and unique smile and hear the joy in your laughter, they will never get to learn from the experiences you’ve had or come to see the world through your eyes, they will never have a chance to fight it out with you and maybe come to see your point of view or maybe show you something better.  Suicide makes it final, done, finished and someone you leave behind will have to live with it for the rest of their life…wondering why and what they could have done to change things…and missing you…forever.  I have both contemplated killing myself and lived through my true love killing himself.  I am speaking to you, never think you are alone in what you feel because I feel your pain too.  And everyday I pray for the people who feel like me.  Whatever you are experiencing in life right now will change. A wise old Indian once said “Change is change and don’t worry it will change some more.”  Reach out to someone and try to talk to them, even if you dont tell them everything your feeling.  Sometimes it is amazing what one persons words can do.  And remember it may be YOU saying the words someone else needs to hear.  Whoever you are, I love you and I am praying for your blessings!