If you’re going to be alone on Xmas, whether you celebrate that particular holiday or not, if you feel lonely and empty, come say Hi on this post. I’ll be alone. Hoping to make it good day somehow and not feel lonely. It’s really just another day on the calendar, but w/ everything going on around, it can be rough.
Hope everyone will be surrounded by love, but sadly I know a lot of us won’t be. So come say howdy and we’ll have some SP Xmas cheer.
love
TM
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D’aww this is lovely! I will be all by my lonesome and will be looking forward to interacting with another human being at some point ^.^
Three,moons, I’ll have people around for the next several days, but I’m a misfit, alone in a crowd, so to speak. I’ll stop by to say hello when I can. Hang in there. : )
Nice post 🙂
Yay! Already a party !
lol we shall have a great little merry xmas here!
happy holidays SP. this is SP’s 10th christmas, how cute, it’s almost ready to go into it’s emo-tween phase <3
Fact is, the holidays are really depressing for a lot of folks…and many times all people need is someone to talk to. So it’s not such a bad idea really. 🙂 Who’s bringing the spiked egg nog?
me! I can bring that. can we do a secret santa thing too? :p
lol …yea!
zomg, secret santa where the gifts are adorable animal gifs ^.^
It’s nice to see the SP community coming together to create something positive instead of its usual histrionic woe-is-me parties.
I’ve stuck this post to act as our official holiday thread to get through the next few days together. I wish you all peace.
thank you.
Hey you guys, I have actually been invited to go several places but I feel too depressed and wish to be physically alone. But I am definetly going to come here and check out the party and say hi!!!!! I am sure not everyone here celebrates Christmas either so I am just going to say I sincerely wish all of you a very Happy Holiday Season!!!!!!!! At least, as happy as it can be on SP. Take care everyone!!!!
You have a great holiday, too!!!! Enjoy the peace and quiet for me 😀
I’ll be alone, but it’s a season in exile – I’d rather be alone than spend any sort of time with my family. Yech. Cats and booze for me. Happy Chanukah or whatever.
Nice thread. Great to be not-alone while being alone 🙂
Like Lost26 and xanadu and probably many others here, I’m alone because I can’t stomach the idea of being with loved ones. The fake smiles, the fake talk, the fake everything… Thanks SP for being the last real place on the planet for someone like me. Now pass me somathat eggnog and keep it coming til I end up on the roof singing xmas carols
I don’t have any egg nog, but I have some fine Ohio-brewed ales and beers. My freaking fridge is like a mini-bar only not mini. So like a bar. Just one that only serves beer.
I’ve been dreading the next couple days. The holidays are for family/loved ones, not for me… I will be by myself, curled up on the floor, and the the only warmth I will feel will be the tears running down my face.
All I want for Xmas is the courage to die.
bring whatever you got, xanadu. You have to come. Life of the party 😉 Especially when you’re drunk I bet.
Not on our clock. I know both feelings and holidays can suck but we can do this love can come from those who know your pain
Happy Holidays to evreybody. I am not alone. but I do have some free time to pop onto the forum and wish everybody the BEST!!!! I wish I had enough money to buy you all gifts.
anyway. Enjoy the Holiday! Stay positive.
Been really struggling with the holidays already so it’ll be nice to be a part of a community to help me through. Obviously here for other if they want a chat!
To Salt and others in the same situation–yea, I could spend it w/ my family..but ….*shudder*. No thanks. I and the cats and whomever of my online friends are around, will suffice just fine. And hopefully I won’t feel too sorry for myself that this year I do’nt have my man anymore.
I was considering going out to Salt Fork and looking for Sasquatch. I bet he’s also lonely this time of year and would like to get drunk as well.
Salt Fork? Or did you mean salt pork? lol…sorry. You have weird names for towns out yonder.
Salt Fork! It’s like the Ohio version of the Redwood forest in California. Everyone’s all, “OMG I SAW SASQUATCH!” there. But sadly, there is no salt, and probably not any forks either.
im in
xoxo tc… 🙂
That is awesome and just made me smile. Finding comfort in pain – more like being with those who get us xoxo
c’mon, kills, peace on earth, good will torwards men, and all that other shit.
fuck that shit. fuck xmas. shes stalking me i want her off
Misery loves company, ho ho ho where’s the mistletoe?
That was mistletoe?! Ack, I thought it was a salad…
hahaha…
dont got no mistletoe, plenty of misery, think ill lose it for the party
fuck christmas
How would someone even do that? If it involves Christmas trees, that just seems painful.
My hope for all of you this Christmas and holiday season is that somehow, someone will reach out and help you be at least a little less lonely. I’ve found that above all, loneliness seems to hurt more than just about anything even though some of us choose to be alone. You have all shared something of yourselves with me over the past year and for that I am grateful.
I sincerely wish for less pain and better days for all of you in the coming year.
– peace
Wishing you find the same noz. Hope your future days are brighter. Hope all of ours are.
the same to you nozmoking, peace
Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to everyone here!
I’ve experienced both the good and bad, highs and lows…so for those who see it as just another day, I can understand and relate. If it is possible to hang out with someone, I’d recommend it…if not, well you’re not totally alone since there are people here who feel as you do.
My life used to be pretty awesome-with some down times, but then as I got older things got worse for me. However I feel I’ve reached an inflection point and things are getting better for me gradually.
I used to take things for granted-beautiful women, great job opportunities, these things used to fall in my lap and I just thought that’s how it’d always remain, but just as I felt ready to take advantage of the things I got, my luck changed for the worse and I experienced many terrible times. I won’t get into my life story here.
I learned a great deal-am much more humble, focused and interested in achieving certain things before I’m truly over the hill…but I’m living life in the moment and as mentioned things are really improving for me. So that’s really my message to those of you who are stuck in rut or feel life will never change. It definitely can and will-but you have to work for it. It won’t happen by itself-if there’s something you want, you must go after it. Best of luck to all.
Merry Christmas. I hope everyone can find a way to make their lives better (not by suicide though). I am sorry that people are alone at this time and other times or for a looooong time but lets keep each other company here. Hugs everyone
Nice post. Merry Christmas everyone..
New member here & first time commenter, so please be kind! 🙂 The holidays are going to be super painful for me this year… my very recent ex & I met 6 years ago at a party on Christmas night. Like many of you, I’ve been battling anxiety & depression nearly my entire life & at 31, I’d like to say things are improving but they’re simply not. Having said that, its great to know I’m not 100% alone these holidays & that lots of people are dealing with similar feelings on a daily basis! Merry Christmas from Oz everyone!
Happy holidays everyone! Hope it goes well 🙂 hope next year is better for all of us
Merry Christmas everyone. I hope in others there is some comfort for each for you. I know I have gotten much comfort during my lowest hours just being on here and realising I’m not alone, and seeing the often very genuine and empathetic replies. So please know there are people that rarely post but who you still give great comfort to.. xx
I’m happy for all the responses here. We’ll have a little bit of fun. It’s too bad there’s not a chat room like back in the days of mIRC (anyone remember that?)
Just click my name. 😛
Also I create and administrate IRC networks (none lately, though). Hobby of mine since I was like 12 years old.
well how about that!
you never cease to amaze and amuse, xandu
sorry about that xanadu, if you think my spelling is bad, you should see my math
Merry Christmas folks. Wishing you all health and happiness.
you folks sure make it hard to be depressed
awww tc you do make my heart melt. xoxo
Mo st of the time we dread the family xmas party.. but sometimes once we’re there.. the love of the family makes you feel good for the evening.. and happy to of gone.
WOW krazy did you just say that??? How awesome to hear you say such things! 🙂
i agree with three moons. right on kaze!!
Thinking of all of you today, SP posters/readers. Happy holidays 🙂
Saw this yesterday, but forgot to comment. Whatever holiday you celebrate, I hope it’s a good one.
~snuf
whoa im late to the party again. oh well nothing new. merry xmas sp
No you’re not Pluto, party’s just starting..!
Yes i am Adman so why you got to go on about it lonely and empty right I need a need a reminder YOUR PICTCH not helping
Merry Christmas everyone! *lifts spiked eggnog in cheer*
Whats everyone up to?
Anyone know how to make / get into a chat room using xanadu’s link?
You should be taken to the room just by clicking his user name. Then you’ll have to type in an email address and pick a nickname for the room, and click “enter”. It’s an easy process. Give it a try, let us know if you have problems, and we’ll troubleshoot.
not i said the alcoholic. i am smoking some fine colorado ganga though,WOOHOO merry whatever!!
we need xanadu to tell us how it works. I used to use mIRC, but this is different.
Just click his user name, three.moons. I’m in there now. It’s easy. Give it a try, and if you have problems, report back and I’ll try to walk you through it.
It’s mostly the same as IRC, just it’s web based and not centralized as far as the administrators/ops are concerned. I’d prefer IRC, but everyone who uses the chatroom got established on ****** and didn’t want to make the switch. Sadface.
Anyone else wanna join? We’re in xanadu’s chat room. Click onhis name, join up, and you’ll be entered to the room.
I cant log in. Says it sent me a password but that hasn’t arrived and its been a bit now :/
Might be in your spam box. Otherwise, try to register using a temporary email account. Those always work for some bizarre reason.
I’m a little late, but, Merry Christmas everyone.
I don’t think its late. Where I am its only 30mins into xmas 🙂 Hope you had/having a good one. Hope everyone is.
I just wanted to let you all know I was thinking about you. Merry xmas.
Happy Holidays to you all out there 🙂
Thank you three.moons and admin
Peace.
I’m in the same boat. Really depressed and lonely……..
The Christmas is almost done! Hope nobody ate too much turkey and passed out in the yard.
Another Christmas past now, and so to bed, Merry Christmas SP.
Goodnight nias 🙂
Christmas funny:-) goodnight all!!! I love my kids and alcohol!!!
i was with my family, still alone as fuck. take care and enjoy christmas