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I’ve decided to accept you

by hogpotter

I can’t find a way to let go of the darkness, can’t find a way to stop hating, can’t find a way to forget. I can’t let go of the memories that have placed a mark upon my soul.

I’ve decided to accept you the way you are. Things you have lost, things you don’t have. I’ve decided to accept you, and continue to live on.

I can’t find someone to love.


will I be able to get married?


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Overcomer72 12/11/2014 - 3:44 pm

The best way to forget bad momets of the past is to keep busy with a new life
that keeps you busy and your new life will just trump the old stuff

so find things to get involved with and stay away from people and places
that remind you of the old garbage.

Yes you can find somebody to marry if you look hard enough

distant.road 12/11/2014 - 6:20 pm

I agree wholeheartedly with Overcomer72’s advice. The best way to forget is to have new life elements replace the old ones. Over time, the new will permanently replace the old. It won’t happen overnight but it will happen.

It can take time and effort to find that partner for marriage. The answer to your question is “Yes.” Don’t give up on your quest. You never know when a chance encounter with a new friend will turn into something special.

Shephard 12/12/2014 - 1:37 am

Never marry a sailor — they’ll just sail away at the first sign of trouble.

Never marry an airman — they’ll drop their entire load so they can call it in and RTB.

You could marry a soldier — although divorce rates are high within army families, due to “no sexual interest whatsoever”. The truth is, sweetheart, that we’re much too quick and deliberate with how we move — we’re in and out of you before you can say “did you butter the muffins?”

I guess that’s part of the problem: no longevity. We’d rather just get the job done so we can head down to the Garry and have a few cold ones with the boys.

OT: I agree with Overcomer72. Outstanding advice.

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