General by dead 4/12/2015 written by dead 4/12/2015 Without sex, is a relationship still a relationship? Or is it just a friendship? 20 comments 0 Email Related posts Note from several years ago, still feels relevant 9/16/2021 Sigh… 9/16/2021 Fed up 9/15/2021 GO AWAY! 9/15/2021 Escaped but still suicidal 9/15/2021 How long have you been depressed? 9/15/2021 I’m not often angry 9/15/2021 Lack of Ones self 9/14/2021 Idk…can I give up now? 9/14/2021 Open your heart so we dont have to... 9/14/2021 20 comments Matt 4/12/2015 - 10:25 pm the only ship that can never sink is a friendship. Knowledge. Log in to Reply dead 4/12/2015 - 10:27 pm Matt I just want your love Log in to Reply Matt 4/12/2015 - 10:27 pm who are you? Log in to Reply copelessness 4/12/2015 - 10:28 pm Wear a bow tie 😛 Log in to Reply dead 4/12/2015 - 10:29 pm 🙁 Log in to Reply Opacity 4/12/2015 - 10:32 pm “the only ship that can never sink is a friendship.” – Wrong. And yes, you can have a romantic relationship without actually having sex, but unless you’re asexual you’re probably going to discuss it and want to engage in it at some point. If you’re not sure of what kind of relationship you’re in it’s best to just talk to your p.artner and find out their thoughts on the matter. Log in to Reply dead 4/12/2015 - 10:33 pm I don’t feel as if I’m asexual. I went to an asexual chat room to ask questions and they said asexuality is not being attracted to anyone. I am attracted to people, but my body does not follow. My mind wants it. Log in to Reply Opacity 4/12/2015 - 10:36 pm I’m not sure what to say; maybe you don’t feel comfortable enough around them yet? Perhaps if you spend more time getting to know them you’d begin to find them more desirable sexually. Log in to Reply Matt 4/12/2015 - 10:38 pm you are asexual. A-Sexual-Goddess. Boom. Log in to Reply dead 4/12/2015 - 10:39 pm Matt <3333 And Opacity, I thought so too, and that's why it never bothered me too much until recently. I was seeing this guy for a while and we waited like a month and a half and i really did want to do it I just.. my body didn't want to. That's when i realized it was fucked up, because I did like him a lot, and still do, regardless that he ended things with me because of it. Log in to Reply Morris 4/12/2015 - 10:40 pm There’s a whole ‘nother world that exists out there once you turn off your computer and venture outdoors. There are people, there is sunshine, there is life beyond your computer. Radical notion, yeah, but it’s true. Log in to Reply dead 4/12/2015 - 10:41 pm Morris, I’m not sure where you’re coming from with that. I do have a life outside of the computer and friends. Log in to Reply Morris 4/12/2015 - 10:44 pm Sorry. I type slowly. Log in to Reply dead 4/12/2015 - 10:45 pm It’s okay, I was just more confused where that came from, but I see what you mean. You typed that in response to me going to a chat, before I mentioned the guy in person. Don’t be sorry. Log in to Reply Opacity 4/12/2015 - 10:47 pm @dead Perhaps you just weren’t compatible sexually. It happens. I had a huge crush on someone I met in school once, but for some reason I couldn’t picture sleeping with them, even though I was attracted to them in every other way. So, I didn’t try pursuing a relationship with them (although things were kinda weird between us in that we had ‘more than friends’ chemistry). Log in to Reply dead 4/12/2015 - 10:48 pm There’s a lot more to it than that which is why I classify it as abnormal. Kinda awkward to talk about though. It’s not quite other people because it has to do with myself as well. Log in to Reply Opacity 4/12/2015 - 10:53 pm Well, if you have physical issues you can try looking to Google, or perhaps visiting a doctor. They might be able to give you helpful advice. Log in to Reply dead 4/12/2015 - 10:55 pm That’s what I’m trying to do next. But if I can’t find a solution to it… honestly I’m going to kill myself. Wouldn’t be able to accept myself Log in to Reply Anunnaki 4/12/2015 - 11:49 pm Without sex it’s a waste of time. Log in to Reply 5 seconds of stendarr 4/13/2015 - 8:11 am any relationship with you is a waste of time Log in to Reply Leave a Comment Cancel ReplyYou must be logged in to post a comment.Subscribe to comments: Don't subscribe All Replies to my comments Notify me of followup comments via e-mail. You can also subscribe without commenting.