He said he cared, he said he would never leave. When I tried to push him away he wouldn’t let me. Until he got drunk and his friends saw he had a message from me. Now I lost him. And I don’t know how to cope. He says he needs to work through his things. So i guess I have to hope he comes back once he does. It hasn’t even been a week but it’s been torture. What do I do. Do I try to talk to him? Or do I forget him.
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I have been there. But i waited years not weeks hoping against all hope. Do not do that. As for what to do i cannot say. I do not know how much time or how much of you you have invested in him. All i do know is you can never love someone enough to make them love you back. If he doesnt thats not your fault and its a miserable existence to live in. Take the time you need and if hes not come back let him go. I would say dont chase him. If he cares enough to come back thats great. If he doesnt then nothing you can do will change that.
The thing is, when there is true love these things would not even happen one second. True love makes things flow naturally and consistently. There are no misunderstandings, surprises, unexpected events, or things like the ones you mention.
So, you can consider yourself lucky that you have released yourself from him. Aside from this, what is this shit that “he got drunk”? what are you doing with someone who gets drunk? Someone who gets drunk is a piece of scum, as that is degrading himself and losing control and hand it to alcohol. Do you want to live under the same roof with someone who gets drunk? How much time until he beats you “sorry I was drunk”?
You need to do a complete formatting of your departing point, a reset and start with a better program to function along life.
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