I knew my best friend since the 1st grade, I instantlly knew we were going to be best friends. We’ve done everything together up intill middle school, we got put on different teams and we kinda just lost our bond, i tried to make is work but it felt like she didn’t want to be friends anymore so I started hanging out with other people and I asked her why she doesn’t want to be friends anymore and she said because I hang out with other people more than her. Around the begining of the year I started getting depressed and suicidal thoughts and she was the only one keeping me together, now she is gone and I don’t know what to do, I just can’t take the pain anymore.
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Sounds like you need to tell her how you really feel.I’m sure you can work things out.If not she was never really a good friend.True friends will stick by you :))
Sometimes people drift apart, there’s really nothing you can do about it but look forward and find new friends.
Well you could always try talking to her though, maybe, reconnect maybe?
Hard to know what really happened here-maybe she got tired of your problems or maybe you neglected her and hung out with your new buddies more often and she became resentful.
I agree with Nihilism000, maybe you can bury the hatchet. If she was a truly good friend, then you could try to mend bridges-but don’t unload your problems on her right away-rebuild the relationship.
However if there was a significant break, then there might not be a chance of recovery. I had such an incident with a close friend of mine and it’s impossible to repair, so we’re just casual friends now. If that’s the case, find someone new to be your confidante.