About two months ago my girlfriend broke up with me, we ended on good terms well in her eyes.. I was destroyed, I thought she was cheating on me because 4 days before she did it she went to hang out with her friend who had a huge crush on her, of what I wasn’t to happy, mainly because it was only going to be them.. She then never said good night or anything she would just disappear, anyway, one of the last things she promised me is that she would never get back with my best friend because he treated her like shit, when we broke up my best friend asked me if there was anyone I didn’t want him to get with and I said her, she was the only person I said, because I didn’t want her getting hurt again and he would always be talking about her so it would hurt, she would always be around, today I found out they have a thing, I wasn’t surprised because they have both lied to me before but what got me was the fact that they were the only people that both promised me that they would not get together again, I have literally no one to help me when I am sad anymore, since we broke up I have been nothing but depressed all the time, I have maybe felt happy twice, I can now not trust my best friend because he tells people my personal business, people know who I like because of him, they know what scares me which is used against me, people know I have anxiety but they make a scene of me in public, but that doesn’t stop them, I cant trust my best friend, I have no one, what do I do….?
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I am guessing you are like 16-19 year old. Huh?
Also seems like two of the biggest problems you’re facing are depression (due to gf and best friend leaving) and anxiety (cus bestie is telling everyone everything).
You should probably find someone new. Like, i know how hard that is and how stupid it sounds.
You need to replace both of them with new, hopefully better people.
Well if it’s people to talk to, we will listen to you here don’t worry! But as Sui_RC said, you should probably meet new people, your best friend will probably come back to you when he break up though, so it’s up to you to know what you will do at that time. I don’t really know if you are still in good term with him or not but for the moment don’t worry just use this as a change to discover new people, new stories, new worlds. It may sound naive but even if right now it’s hard maybe later you will meet new people and be happy that this happened.
I might be generalizing here, and i know everyone is not the same, but every single time i’ve been told “i’ll never get with X person” by a girl… right after they broke up with me they end up with that person, whether it was a friend of mine or some guy who was clearly just playing them (and they knew it and still went for it). All i can say is that i know how it feels, but at least you kinda know that you can’t trust in either your ex best friend or you ex gf. Take your time to heal, and be more careful when trusting people. Like BrokenDreams says above use this to meet new people (when you are ready), not everyone will stab you in the back (hopefully) so maybe a change of friends will help you.
Also get ready to have your ex friend (or even your ex gf) knocking at the door at some point… not a sure thing, but it does happens often in cases like yours.
Thanks guys means a lot