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I know how it is to love someone, then to lose them to someone else (for whatever reason). It’s very difficult and painful to let them go and to be alone again.

But you might be romanticizing it too much-as well as placing too much blame on yourself. You don’t know what was in his mind at the time. Maybe he wanted a change. Maybe he’s not as nice as you thought him to be.

Think about it-I know if I really loved a girl, I’d stay with her through thick and thin. If she pushed me away, then wanted me back and offered a good reason with an apology, I’d take her back.

So I think there might be more going on here than you care to recognize. Love is an amazing and wonderful feeling, that’s what some of us really strive for in life. But don’t lose sight of the details and why sometimes people fall out of love.

There was a person I was in love with once and I overlooked her flaws. She said some demeaning things to me that I wouldn’t have tolerated from anyone else-but then I assumed because she loved me (or so I thought) that she’s just being foolish-we had great sex as well so I just overlooked her imperfections. But over time I lost interest in her and we had fights over stupid, petty things, things that I’d easily get over, but she’d hold stupid grudges for months. Eventually I got fed up with it and broke up with her.

Anyhow I think it’s important to start loving yourself first and stop hurting yourself, you deserve better. Also think of the times when things weren’t so great between you and him and you’ll probably realize why you’re no longer together. Sounds like you have a good heart and if you find a guy who deserves you, you’ll have a great relationship.

Recently I got my heart-broken by a girl I really cared about and I thought she felt the same, but left me for someone else. So it’s nice to know there are still some girls out there who are genuine and not selfish users. Hang in there, get better and you’ll find a good man one day I’m sure.