GeneralI’m scared by clarity1987 11/29/2015 written by clarity1987 11/29/2015I’m scared…..what if I never get my life together. my lifetogether 13 comments 0EmailRelated postsordinary 4/6/2020Big Yellow Attic 4/6/2020Where is everyone 4/6/2020The Spiral 4/5/2020Lets meet again in the future 4/5/2020its my time… 4/5/2020Covid19. 4/5/2020porn addiction 4/5/2020nothing… 4/4/2020Spirits 4/4/202013 comments metanoia2125 11/29/2015 - 7:40 pmWhat does getting your life together consist of? Log in to Reply nextime1988 11/29/2015 - 8:46 pmIm exsctly where you are i knkw what tjat feels like its so fucking scary Log in to Reply disgusting 11/29/2015 - 9:36 pmI know the feeling. I’m 38 without a pot to piss in. Log in to Reply SeeSmith 11/29/2015 - 9:55 pmI vote for never getting life together! I also vote for giving away all your possessions and becoming an unemployed homeless drifter. I bet you think this sounds terrible but it actually solves a whole plethora of problems. Log in to Reply clarity1987 11/30/2015 - 6:31 amYou know, i actually thought of that before. I’m sure having nothing to lose kinda liberate you kinda Log in to Reply SeeSmith 11/30/2015 - 7:08 amYes.I should have said more. Like:Some people look at getting thier life together to mean have a wife, have a house, have 2.5 kids. That is such bullshit. Having those things because you want them is great. Any other reason is wrong.Having a super well paying job is nice but having a modest job that makes you look forward to getting to work in the morning is better. Much better!Moving out of your parent’s house is a good idea, but if you have an arrangement that works then don’t fuck with it!Accomplishing something with your life is a pernicious lie. Shelter and food. Health insurance. Someone to love. Cats and happiness. Those are the only important things in life. The is nothing wrong with muddling through an unremarkable life!If you burn inside to write a novel or cure cancer or feed the hungry or exhibit your genitals to llamas then do it. If you feel like you should be doing something remarkable just to do it then stop. The world needs thoughtful literate people more than it needs remarkable people. Donald Trump is remarkable. Yuk! Log in to Reply outinthedark 11/29/2015 - 10:39 pmThink about the things going wrong in your life. Choose one problem, the easiest and least messy problem. Try thinking of one small thing you can do to try and make it better. Everyones lives are messy as hell. Don’t try to get your life together. Try to make it a little bit more bearable to live in. Log in to Reply Hazy Day Sunflower 11/29/2015 - 11:20 pmI worry about what will happen if I do. Log in to Reply SeeSmith 11/29/2015 - 11:47 pmYou will become a world renowned healer and lecturer. Unfortunately, the state will put your chickens in foster care. Log in to Reply Mf 11/29/2015 - 11:48 pmWhich most likely is just a friendly name for KFC. Log in to Reply Hazy Day Sunflower 11/30/2015 - 12:13 amYou people are such trolls, hilarious inappropriate troll. I love both of you dearly. Don’t threaten my chickens with FosterKFCare. Log in to Reply jadedkeizy 11/30/2015 - 2:33 amIn that same position but uhmm still hoping for the best and preparing for the worst … Log in to Reply Shephard 11/30/2015 - 4:59 amThere’s only duct tape and no. 8 wire holding mine together. It’s bound to all come apart fairly soon anyway. Moral of the story: quick fixes lack a lasting solution.If you’re going to hold it together — be prepared to dig in for the long one. Log in to Reply Leave a Comment Cancel ReplyYou must be logged in to post a comment.Subscribe to comments: Don't subscribeAllReplies to my comments Notify me of followup comments via e-mail. You can also subscribe without commenting.