i like this site a lot because its’s neither pro nor anti suicide and self harm. I think that’s important for a lot of people. When you’re in an intense situation to the point of wanting to kill yourself, hurt yourself, you can’t have people who don’t understand it pushing their beliefs on you and get you to do something. Especially when – and I hate to admit it – we’re in a vulnerable state of mind. We need to be able to make our own decisions and sometimes have someone know exactly what we’re talking about.