I’m a below average statured man, yet i htink my looks may be not that bad. at a certain point in my life i began that noticing sometimes in public setting women would notice me.
Like this morning i went for lunch with my parents at a fine restaurent when then this gorgeous girl walked in with (i think) her Grandparents and they sat in a table next to us and it happened she noticed me.
Maby its the reason i’m feeling so bad today knowing that i’m a socially awkward fuck, that i dont have the guts and even if i had no woman whats to put up with a short man that most liklely would turn out to be an emotional burden on her.
Fuck my life
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That’s completely untrue about women and short men. If there are women who are interested in you, they’re interested. If your height isn’t an issue to them then, it isn’t going to become a problem later on.
Being socially awkward makes it harder to meet people… but not impossible. Don’t let people noticing you turn into thoughts about how things could never work out with someone. It’s a ruthless way of thinking, when what would probably be a positive to you ends with you feeling hopeless again. The same thing happens to me all the time, but it’s worth fighting when you can.
That’s cool that you got noticed. I completely ignore all women who notice me now.
“…i’m a socially awkward fuck, that i dont have the guts and even if i had no woman whats to put up with a short man that most liklely would turn out to be an emotional burden on her.” Sorry to hear about that.
So, i’m not the only one? lol. Just yesterday ignored someone because i tend to do that nowadays (and funnily enough, i always extra-ignore the cutest ones… no idea why), but i can’t deny it kinda helps with ego a bit.
As for the op’s post… well, if you believe something for long enough it kinda ends up becoming true (at least for you)… i do think that regardless of your looks and height, you have to sort of believe you’re worth it in order not to have constant struggles in a relationship (or even get one). Sure, someone can see the good in yourself that you fail to see, but if you’re constantly negating it, anyone could get tired, no matter who you are or how you look like.
You make a good point
At first i too ignored them all i was fucoused in setting up my life financially but now that eveeything is on the edge i started geeting afected by it