I’m going to keep this short, sweet, and unrelated to the norm. I want to write, and normally I don’t ask if it’s a good or bad idea. I generally just do it and say fuck the consequences, but this time is a little different. As you all can guess, it’s about a girl, and it’s complicated. First, a little update on how romance has been going in my life. The girl that has caused me so much sorrow and heartache has officially been given up on, and I have moved on. Now that’s out of the way, straight to why this shit be complicated (I use improper English on purpose sometimes, gives me a fake accent). This girl is new here, and I’ve been talking with her for the majority of the time she’s been around. She’s complimented me and all that jazz, ain’t that a good saying? and we’ve been getting along really well. Here’re the issues, A. Some guy that hated me before this ever happened now hates me even more because he thinks I’m moving in on “his” girl. B. I have always fucking sucked at relationships.
Thank ya’ll for readin’ (the fake accents are strong with this one) and even bigger thanks to those who comment with suggestions. Also, rocketman, how’ve you been doing buddy? Hope you checked out my Christmas post.
5 comments
hey thelost,
i understand your predicament. i have been in lots of situations where people have hated me for dating/talking to someone that was once theirs or they thought. if you are really into this new girl and she’s really into you, i believe that other people don’t matter at that point. if that guy never liked you from the beginning, tell him to fuck off and mind his own business. if you already tried that, he’s obviously just not worth your time. and it’s okay if you’re last relationships didn’t work out, this could be a new start, you know? always go into something new with a positive mindset.
by the way, i dig the fake accent haha
That fake accent thing is kinda funny, and… yeah, i get why you do it. I remember i started to add curses to my vocabulary when my friends used to do it, lol. Now fuck you and damn you are a regular thing.
That said… well, if it was for that, no one would ever be able to be with anybody that has been on a relationship before… that’s nuts. If that guy has an ongoing relationship with that girl, sure, you’re moving in on the girl he’s dating and that’d be wrong…. but if they have nothing, the girl likes you, and you like her… i’d say, in proper english, fuck him? lol. It’s not like you actually own someone just because you dated that person in the past.
And… well, about your B point… you never know. Most men inherently suck at relationships (me included), but that doesn’t mean it can’t work. Nobody’s born knowing everything so you can always learn along the way.
thelost,
ha ha! i’m doing OK thanks for asking! first Men are terrible at relationships including me, yeah it took time for me to understand a woman, now i could write a book! here’s a few tips no.1 let them do all the talking! they love to talk about themselves, just ask questions so they can answer and they will go on forever 🙂 no.2 Don’t be selfish give them what they want! 🙂 NO.3 NEVER NEVER say your sorry or it’s your fault! they will never let you forget it!!!!!! 🙂
No i didn’t see it sorry i’ll check it out now 🙂
oh yeah I got a kitten I’ll tell you about her, Far as Lucifer is concerned that’s what i’m thinking of calling the kitten ha ha! probably not 🙂 but you’d have to be here you’d say OMFG! TRUST ME!!! 🙂 i got her from work she was born in the maintenance shack, her mother lives at my work for years, the mother is fucking fearless and a true hunter! sits in trees waiting for big birds lunges out at them through the branches! and if very good!!! unbelievable! she also is around like 100 people everyday loves people! anyways her offspring is just as tough! come on three days out of the box from nursing about 3 weeks old, right away she started eating solid food! and is fearless! tearing me up! running around like a tiger attacking everything! i have 3 other cats that are big they are running for there lives!!!! this cat is very unique! and won’t leave my side follows me everywhere and is quick! she used the box for her very first poop! on her own, she has a narrow face the eyes of panther! and will stare you down! she is charcoal grey! i’m telling you very very special! 🙂
Far as Lucifer is concerned thats what i’m thinking of calling the kitten ha ha! probally not 🙂 but you’d have to be here you’d say OMFG! TRUST ME!!! 🙂 i got her from work she was born in the maintenance shack, her mother lives at my work for years, the mother is fucking fearless and a true hunter! sits in trees waiting for big birds lunges out at them through the branches! and if very good!!! unbelievable! she also is around like 100 people everyday loves people! anyways her offspring is just as tough! come on three days out of the box from nursing about 3 weeks old, right away she started eating solid food! and is fearless! tearing me up! running around like a tiger attacking everything! i have 3 other cats that are big they are running for there lives!!!! this cat is very unique! and won’t leave my side follows me everywhere and is quick! she used the box for her very first poop! on her own, she has a narrow face the eyes of panther! and will stare you down! she is charcoal grey! i’m telling you very very special! 🙂
HA HA! A LITTLE TO MUCH COPY A PASTE! 🙂 OR IS IT THE VODKA? 🙂
thelost,
I LOVE IT!! AND I LOVE YOU TOO MAN! hick-up! great job LMAO!!! You should keep writing 🙂