“What did you say your name was?”
“Why are you like this?”
“Smile!”
“Keep trying!”
“What did you do this weekend?”
“Be yourself!”
“Look on the bright side of things.”
“What do you do for fun?”
“Why do not you make more friends?”
“One day will be well, be patient.”
“You have everything and complain!”
“Of course it is so, you only stay at home!”
“Have hope.”
“Stand by me for all!”
“Call your friends for a night out.”
“There are many people with bigger problems than yours!”
“Do not be coward!”
“God has plans for you.”
“Crying will not do anything.”
“Talk to her...”
“She didn’t deserve you… You’ll find someone better…”
“Believe in your dreams.”
“EVERYTHING WILL BE ALRIGHT.”
“Don’t jump, please!”
“Why did you try do that?”
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This is perfect. I hate when people talk to me like this
You are not a loser. You are cool and very worthwhile person. Just because some people might have said some of those things to you does not mean your a loser. They were just trying to help.
Some of that stuff is actually good advice. What is going on with you? if you talk about what you are going through somebody can come along and help. Also… you should be open minded about advice. Sometimes things that seem harsh when said can actually be good advice.
Getting advice from people (even if its not perfect advice) does not make anyone a loser.
Id like to chat with you.
I’m a loser, but more of a positive one.. But as I got older and even now I’m positive about those things that I used to hate to hear. and I thrive through life now as a good loser that wins.. sometimes. You can’t win ’em all.
Everyone of those things..hits home
Story of my fucking life
I’ve seen things like this so many times, but its all because no one knows how to talk to a person with depression. Only depressed people and former depressed people will understand what we go through. No one else will understand unless they have felt the pain we have felt when those thoughts took over and that black cloud started choking us again.
My grandmother talks to me about Jesus and I’m like “Yeah uh huh…” She says God gives you life and only He can take your life or you go to hell for killing yourself. I wish I believed in something. I just don’t.
You are not a loser. What defines a loser? Did society do that? Did they define what a loser is and isn’t?
Is a ‘loser’ in society one or more of these things?
‘Lazy’
Uninterested in life
Unable to cope
Sick of society
Unemployed
Just examples… How does this make one a loser? We didn’t ask to be born. How are we a loser? We had no say in our birth!!!
In fact,most people on SP are very intelligent. This is kind of like our own society that we created.
Some people who say the stuff in your post are ignorant and others are just assholes
Society would also define me as a ‘loser’. Lol so what? I’ll be dead in 50+ years (hopefully much much before that). I didn’t even choose to be born. Why do i need to participate in life again?!?!