I have mentioned many times how I have been in love with this girl for so long. I also posted quite recently about how I have finally gotten over her and have felt like I can comfortably have relationships now that I am no longer in love with her. She messaged me a couple of days ago and damn, i’m back. How can I be so in love with a girl. She messages me and I light up right away and message her right back. I am evem expecting a letter in the mail from her. We’ve been exchanging letters since freshman year. We talk online a well but we enjoy writing letters for eacother. Everyime I talk to her I feel like she feels the same way, but how could she? Shes in a happy 3+ year relationship with her boyfriend. Why after all these years do I feel this way. I wish these questions had answers. How long will this last? Does she feel the same way? Why would she? Why?
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She has a boyfriend? Run. Now.
She’ll only cause you pain that she doesn’t deserve to give you. She wants attention and that’s it.
The thing is, shes my best friend. We’ve been friends since elementary school. She was also supportive when I told her about my depression. Shes not like and attention seeking girl.
thinking if she has a boyfriend already, this will only cause more pain in the end
I have told myself that many times but its hard for me to let go. She is my bestfriend, I cant imagine myself letting go.
You don’t have to let go rich. I never did. It didn’t mean I didn’t go on with my life, get married, have children, live well. He is always in my heart. He is part of my heart. That is okay. It is okay to love and love well. I never found anyone remotely like him, but that is okay too, I’ll never replace him, which is a secret I have in my heart I cherish.
Love rich, go right ahead and love. But live as well. Live well. For her and for you. Live your life in testimony to the fact you love.
Richard, if you want a true story and a very possible scenario of your future and how her boyfriend will feel if you keep the thing towards the girl, click on my name and read my latest post.
The heart wants what it wants, and sometime 30 years won’t extinguish the flame.