God, I just want something I’m missing. I feel horrible for it. I don’t know what a relationship or even a friendship looks like. Shouldn’t there be some common leg ?
I don’t know anyone who’s voice does that to me, but I do at least two people whose voices send a chill down my spine. Just a pulse of icy fear.
Childhood abuse will do that too you. But I tell myself I should be over that, now.
Lol, common leg is a saying I’ve always heard and used. Basically something cherished and shared. Just kind of venting I guess. My significant has called me 100 times today. We have no mutual interest so it’s usually just me getting more and more aggravated while waiting for an opportunity to hang up.
Sorry, Alan, my third comment was about typos in my own comment. Sorry if you thought it was about you. The common leg thing was directed at you, though.
That situation sounds nerve wracking. I’m very sorry about that. 🙁
I mean it as spouse. I’m trying very hard to stay as anonymous as possible. My spouse doesn’t think I should communicate with anyone besides them. I fear what will happen if I’m caught.
If she is calling this much she must be anxious about something. Maybe she knows something’s not right in your relationship, I am just rambling here… don’t mind me
I wish relationships were easier…
Oh yeah, it’s definitely a known fact I want out, I’ve even expressed that I’ve considered suicide to get away. Which I was heavily ridiculed for. I’ve accused of seeking extra marital relations with family even. My spouse has even stated they’d like to divorce but would then need to be self sufficient, and would want extra off the books support in order for me to see my kids.
Sorry Alan I can see it is a heavy situation. Sorry if I was rude, I was just curious, but I must learn to be more cautious. Didn’t mean to offend you.
Money can really ruin a lot of lives…
Hope you can find an exit
My Moms voice and rial me at times. She is controlling and snappy, and she talks to much and talks to loud some of the time. Sometimes her voice really urks me and it brings back bad memories of a bad childhood too.
Money penny- not offended at all. I’m here to share I guess, I don’t know. ..
Phantom-that’s reminiscent of my spouse. Fast and loud, demanding yet whiny. It starts as grievances with everyone else which just drones in my head, slowly it transition into an all out attack on me, until something sets me off. Then when I snap, I’m a monster and she’s victim. This isn’t once in awhile, it’s 5-20 times a day.
Something I just remembered that kind of fits with this I think. I mentioned being ridiculed for feeling suicidal. Well at one point I decided to try cutting, mostly on my rib cage. I figured so many people do it it’s gotta help, even if it’s a problem of itself. Well when my spouse discovered it, I was told I needed to grow up, quit acting like a teenage girl, and also ridiculed for “not cutting that deep”…
That is awful. I’m not trying to insult your spouse, but that kind of thing infuriates me.
More adult men self harm than people realize. It most certainly isn’t exclusive to “teenaged girls.”
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God, I just want something I’m missing. I feel horrible for it. I don’t know what a relationship or even a friendship looks like. Shouldn’t there be some common leg ?
What do you mean by common leg? Was that a typo?
I don’t know anyone who’s voice does that to me, but I do at least two people whose voices send a chill down my spine. Just a pulse of icy fear.
Childhood abuse will do that too you. But I tell myself I should be over that, now.
There are so many typos in this message it makes me sick. I’m not illiterate, I swear.
Lol, common leg is a saying I’ve always heard and used. Basically something cherished and shared. Just kind of venting I guess. My significant has called me 100 times today. We have no mutual interest so it’s usually just me getting more and more aggravated while waiting for an opportunity to hang up.
Well that word ‘significant’ just called my attention. It may mean two completely different things… curious
Sorry, Alan, my third comment was about typos in my own comment. Sorry if you thought it was about you. The common leg thing was directed at you, though.
That situation sounds nerve wracking. I’m very sorry about that. 🙁
I mean it as spouse. I’m trying very hard to stay as anonymous as possible. My spouse doesn’t think I should communicate with anyone besides them. I fear what will happen if I’m caught.
I got that. Just kidding.
If she is calling this much she must be anxious about something. Maybe she knows something’s not right in your relationship, I am just rambling here… don’t mind me
I wish relationships were easier…
Oh yeah, it’s definitely a known fact I want out, I’ve even expressed that I’ve considered suicide to get away. Which I was heavily ridiculed for. I’ve accused of seeking extra marital relations with family even. My spouse has even stated they’d like to divorce but would then need to be self sufficient, and would want extra off the books support in order for me to see my kids.
Sorry Alan I can see it is a heavy situation. Sorry if I was rude, I was just curious, but I must learn to be more cautious. Didn’t mean to offend you.
Money can really ruin a lot of lives…
Hope you can find an exit
Oops, I BEEN accused of incestuous desires, I didn’t accuse that!
My Moms voice and rial me at times. She is controlling and snappy, and she talks to much and talks to loud some of the time. Sometimes her voice really urks me and it brings back bad memories of a bad childhood too.
Money penny- not offended at all. I’m here to share I guess, I don’t know. ..
Phantom-that’s reminiscent of my spouse. Fast and loud, demanding yet whiny. It starts as grievances with everyone else which just drones in my head, slowly it transition into an all out attack on me, until something sets me off. Then when I snap, I’m a monster and she’s victim. This isn’t once in awhile, it’s 5-20 times a day.
Something I just remembered that kind of fits with this I think. I mentioned being ridiculed for feeling suicidal. Well at one point I decided to try cutting, mostly on my rib cage. I figured so many people do it it’s gotta help, even if it’s a problem of itself. Well when my spouse discovered it, I was told I needed to grow up, quit acting like a teenage girl, and also ridiculed for “not cutting that deep”…
That is awful. I’m not trying to insult your spouse, but that kind of thing infuriates me.
More adult men self harm than people realize. It most certainly isn’t exclusive to “teenaged girls.”
Really? I didn’t know. Guess maybe it was just not deep enough to be manly. It was deep enough for me to know bleeding out isn’t my method.