a combination of both. Being told by a person you care for that they have no interest in you not once but TWICE is pretty painful. I can feel all the darkness creeping back into my life again. Part of my doesn’t want to allow it but the other half wants to give up. Hence conflict….
I think we can all understand this kind of conflict, but I can definately tell you this type of situation has been the ruin of me.. all I can say is that I am here.. and if u can learn from me, don’t let it ruin you
Is that the same person that was using you? been there. Trust me, no matter how good you are to that person, that won’t change much. I know this might not be nice to read but the fact that the person told you that there’s no interest is a good thing, otherwise it’d be just an act of keeping things undefined so they could continue to use you. If you really want to save yourself from some heartache don’t push it, that won’t help much.
The sad reality is that the only reason why we, as individuals, should be good to someone else, is just because we want to, and not because we expect something in return. That in itself is often a recipe for disaster, specially when feelings are involved. Just last year i felt like i was going through something similar until i realized that… well, if i was good to a particular person it was my choice, and what that person did after that was out of my control. Sucks incredibly, i know, but… that’s life.
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I’m here. What’s going on?
hello alina… I am here as well
Sup
my heart ever so slightly aches
physically or metaphorically
What has you feeling conflicted?
a combination of both. Being told by a person you care for that they have no interest in you not once but TWICE is pretty painful. I can feel all the darkness creeping back into my life again. Part of my doesn’t want to allow it but the other half wants to give up. Hence conflict….
I think we can all understand this kind of conflict, but I can definately tell you this type of situation has been the ruin of me.. all I can say is that I am here.. and if u can learn from me, don’t let it ruin you
I get it truly I do and I also know that there are worse things. but damn it doesn’t take away the sting from the pain!!
Is that the same person that was using you? been there. Trust me, no matter how good you are to that person, that won’t change much. I know this might not be nice to read but the fact that the person told you that there’s no interest is a good thing, otherwise it’d be just an act of keeping things undefined so they could continue to use you. If you really want to save yourself from some heartache don’t push it, that won’t help much.
The sad reality is that the only reason why we, as individuals, should be good to someone else, is just because we want to, and not because we expect something in return. That in itself is often a recipe for disaster, specially when feelings are involved. Just last year i felt like i was going through something similar until i realized that… well, if i was good to a particular person it was my choice, and what that person did after that was out of my control. Sucks incredibly, i know, but… that’s life.