Hi guys, hope you good, got some favors to ask.
I want to see a therapist, but I don’t know what the deal is with me, this sadness I carry, always thinking about how the living dies and hurts others in horrible ways and I can’t just do anything, can just watch. The only thing I can do is to be there for the ones I love but even then, nothing is sure. I don’t even want to die that bad now, I feel like I have a job to finish here. It feels like that my sadness drives me on since no long, but what is the destination ?
Can you ask to make specific tests ? Or is it the therapist who decides ?
Thought I bested my “sad phase” a while ago, but it came back at full force, maybe I should give up. No not giving up. but we should, we need help. the only person who can help us is us. but we can’t handle it. and what then seek help to a stranger who maybe will change the way we lived. i know that I am scared but we have to do something don’t you think ? I don’t know, I won’t trust them, they are only after our money. Don’T talk like that, maybe she won’t. Then why is she get paid for ? Has to live. I won’t run, we ran enough, we have to face it, like we always did, with the help of no one, just us. This time I will not hold the ground,friend.
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Maybe counselling to try discover what the sadness is about u might find the root of it that way hope this helps
counselling to who ? I am not in school anymore. To my parents, yeah right, mother doesn’t understand, father is more understanding, but he can’t figure it out
I didn’t mean it like that I’m from the uk counselling talk therapy ? I’m not sure what theropy they have if ur from the Us
i’m not in the US, live in germany
Sorry man thought u was from the us
Lacalamity, go to the therapist and know this, there are dozens of different approaches to psychology, to say the least, and there are dozens of etical approaches for a professional (caring just for the money or having interests in helping people are just two faces of it). It means that you can or can not find the right person or the right therapy this first time, but you’ll have to risk it, to get to know and to keep on looking till you get to the one that may help you personally.
It means no one can tell you how this particular person is going to do her job. But what you may know is that if you don’t feel comfortable with it you can try all over again with someone else.
Hey lacalamity, I really like your mental back and forth in this post. It reminded me of smegal from LOTR. Not that you are that far gone bit the mental picture was of you talking to yourself in the mirror or a puddle or something.
Anyhow, I talk to myself a lot too. I’ll be around tonight to listen some if you are going to be commenting on your thread. Maybe you just need someone to listen. There really are no right or wrong ways to handle this stuff.
thank you, I’ll be alright for now