I don’t know why I dwell on my perpetual dateless more than my other issues. Maybe it’s because I get reminders of it everywhere. I don’t think im ugly just an unattractive. Its the same distinction between impoverished and broke. I’ve been working out but yesterday i tweaked my back in the gym. When i went to see Deadpool I saw reminders of someone i love(d) that I will never see again. I realize that my first love is my last love because I’m too shy/scared/unattractive to find someone.
“Somos feos apestamos y pero reinamos “- Corey Taylor, Slipknot song: Me Inside
“We’re ugly and we stink but we rule…?”
I think it’s just about doing it as the Nike slogan goes. Do it and get pummeled for a while. Then gradually get smarter and grow more attractive simply by better understanding the “game”.
I mean, I keep blowing chances, but the successful guys I see are the brave ones that swallow their pride and do it anyway. That don’t mind being a laughing stock. Not that you should be delusional. But give it a try to gauge your skill level/attractiveness.
I also have some book recommendations: “No More Mr Nice Guy” and “Mate”.
I’ve been denied hundreds of times irl and thousands online. I appreciate the help though. I am what i am at this point and the type of relationship i want is dead as a doorknob anyway.
I feel your pain. Am Ugly, unattractive and weird. Fuck my life, death is my only companion. The day I meet death , is the day I will be at peace for ever. No more pretending no more fake smiles.
I get some attention, but I worry that when they actually get to know the person behind the mask, that is when they leave. So yeah, they never get that far.
There’s a huge difference between ugly/pretty and attractive/unattractive. I’m a pretty regular looking guy and i’ve had mostly failures, so… yup, attractiveness is more a how you’re perceived sort of thing, not a how you really are. You never know tho… i’ve declared my love life as dead twice, and at least one of those times i was practically dragged out of it. The last time i declared it as dead tho? 3 years and counting, with no end to be seen.
I did lol at the corey taylor comment… “we’re ugly and we suck” says the most bad looking and unattractive guy ever… NOT.
FTR i meant pretty as in “i’m an average looking guy” not pretty as in “i feel pretty oh so pretty” sort of way, lol. But yeah, you can face failures and success regardless of your looks.
Oh man, I love that song. I YouTubed it and found that scene from Anger Management. Ahh, thanks 🙂
society is uncivilized we are no different to wild animals; only wanting the ‘best looking’ male/female to breed and raise the kids. ‘ugly’ animals are also not worthy in the wild; e.g a bunch of male lions competing for the female lion.
Yeah and lone wolfs are the ones exiled from the pack because they are unworthy to mate