I don’t think there’s much need to go into detail. I’ve tried to get on with my situation but unfortunately it’s just not going to work out. I’ve made my decision, I’ve given life a fair shot and am not acting on a spur of the moment emotion.
So I’ve been giving it some serious thought and one of my main problems is as the title says. I’m not sure whether I should just start cutting people off and getting them out of my life or not. I’m a patient person and can easily wait up to a couple of years before doing the deed, which I think would give most people enough time to become significantly less attached to me if they had no contact. With close family….I don’t think there’s much that can be done but they know of my problems and will understand better than anyone why I’ve done it.
Any advice or viewpoints on how to deal with this matter will be appreciated.
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Try minimise the effect on yourself first. 🙂
Don’t cut people from your life. Cut those thoughts and despair which makes you think like this.
Yeah. That’s not easy.
You heard that first step is always hard. But trust me when your are dealing with depression there are lots of first steps.
Share your emotions with your family member, with you can share or feel like sharing.
And I think you are new here. You should give it some time and you can share here also.
Here People are kind and helpful.
You can share. It will help. It helped me.
Don’t loose hope. ‘Hope’, it’s the perfect remedy.
Have a nice day. 🙂
I appreciate people trying to be kind, as such I don’t want to sound negative but I have shared many, many times. With family, friends and professionals. There is no cure for Aspergers and no way to sort my particular set of circumstances.
All I want to know is how to protect other people from the worst of the fallout.
The best way, IMHO, is to just sell everything and disappear. Just walk away and not be there when they call or knock. After a while, they will just forget.
Yes I think this is the best way to do it too.
As Peace mentioned above, you can find some nice people here. It can help to share with others. Seeing other people in similar shoes can remind you that you’re not alone.
If you’re still reading posts on this site, I hope that you’re doing okay. It’s been a few days since your first post.
I just noticed your recent comment. It’s good that you’re still here.
You can’t. Even if you vanish years before going to pandora, they will know. It’s all the same man. Human beings sense. Wouldn’t you if you were them? You can’t minimize anything.