I feel done. I know im not going to kill myself but if a fucking bus hit me i wouldnt care. I went drunk driving last night because i felt reckless.
I just have a question for yall. If you were dating someone and they had pictures of them and their ex that were put away and never looked at and you found them would that be reason enough to get super angry and have serious trust issues?
Because i had pictures and he found them and i had to rip them all up and we broke up so i am trying to get ahold of my two exes to see if they could send me just one picture.
He went on my facebook and he seen. Now he feels that there is no hope for us. Maybe thats because i held onto the memories and kept a small place in my heart for them. He felt he didnt have my whole heart even though im in love with him. Not my exes. Even though he is an ex now.
I want a real non biased answer or opinion. Put yourself in his shoes please
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nobody has the right to get into your stuff and rip it up, i would have thrown that person out or left, not having respect for my personal property is unacceptable, if you were flaunting it around well then that’s a different story. DON’T TOUCH MY STUFF! GOT IT! Now i’m going to get a hold of all these people and ask for pictures because of you! That means now i’ll be talking to them because of you! asshole!
you asked that’s me.
He didnt rip them up. He found them and i was pretty well forced to get rid of them or get rid of him.
But i kind of agree. And to top it off hes logging into my fb after the breakup to “make sure im not hurting him more”
He’s a childish insecure ass, which, unfortunately, means he’s pretty normal.
I’ve dated women that had pictures of themselves with thier exs on the mantelpiece. I didn’t care. Those pictures were part of thier narrative, not mine. Now, if pictures of us didn’t go up on the mantelpiece, too, then I’d raise an eyebrow.
Here’s a shocking concept: regardless of how joined at the hip you are in a relationship, some things are always private. Companions that respect this should be the norm.
Put myself in his shoes? I was wearing diapers when I was that way. I grew up.
i was in his shoes. few years ago i found pictures of my girlfriend with one of her exes. didn’t fucking care.
but we’re men, we get jealous. it’s our natural instinct. i got jealous on other occasions with my girlfriend but she made herself clear that i’m the one for her and that she loves me. and you should do the same with this guy, if that’s still relevant and true.
I definatly made it clear that he was the one i wanted.
Maybe im bad at doing that i dont know. Thanks for the imput
i don’t know you obviously, was everything ok between you two before he found out about the pictures? maybe it was something else that led to it?
Well i thought we were perfect. I wont lie i checked up on him quite a bit at first . he was addicted to meth and heroin. Deadly mix. We were best friends before anything. I never wanted him back.
Oart of me feels really guilty and part of me feels like its a bit ridiculous.
Going drunk driving is almost the same as taking out a gun and shooting randoms. By your stupidity, you could kill people WHO DON’T WANT TO DIE. Please don’t act like a sociopath. Have respect for those around you.
Pictures of me and my exes are buried far away. When I’m dating someone new who I really like, I’d rather not look back too much.
Your right. It probably doesnt help that i love in the middle of nowhere and was 3am on backroads. Didnt see a single car.
But it is really stupid. And theres always a chance i could have seen others on the road.