Almost 30 years old and never had a girlfriend. Heck, I’ve never even met a girl that showed just a littlebit of interes in me.
I guess some people aren’t meant to find love during their lifetime.
This makes my soul so sad, I have no words to describe it.
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I’ll probably be there one day too…. I’m 22 and at the same place…. Although I’m open to anybody so I guess I have a bit more than twice as many chances for somebody to express interest in me and me to respond positively to it :/
That is a fantastic was of looking at it.
Welcome to the celibacy club my friend. Is your visit forced or voluntary? Today’s forecast: Dry as a bone and no nookie in sight…
It was forced upon me for 3 decades and counting…..
Sorry to hear that.
Getting women isn’t impossible. Tell me a bit about yourself, I’ll tell you where to go and how to do it.
I am 29 year old guy who can’t find a GF online and in real life. As soon as a girl sees me she feels repulsed by me. How can I find love if the opposite sex is repulsed by me?
How do you know the opposite sex is “repulsed” by you? Isn’t that a bit much?
@Konig Laconic I know that they are repulsed by me because many of the women I’ve met said than into my face 🙁
Being ugly sucks 🙁
Awww, dude… that’s harsh. ):
Martin, ignore them. Ignore them all, even the hottest chick in town.
As much as I’m in the same situation at 19 it’s very possible I mean we are 8 billion people on this planet and on every corner I see single beautiful women or women with all types of guys. I would reccomend you search for advice on approaching women to get started and make connections from there that’s beyond just sex we shouldn’t be suffering for something that every man is supposed to have in their lifetime or we wouldn’t be here.
Im in the same boat. I wish it would sink so i can drown.
I wish for that “drowning” too my friend. I’ve been wishing for it since 2003, but sadly I’m still “sailing” 🙁
I’m sorry that women or girls make you feel that way. I know you actively have to try to get to know people and really put yourself out there if you want anything to happen. I say that because I don’t do that and I have been underneath the radar and invisible to just about every guy I come across. I wish you good luck in finding a companion!
Where is “there” exactly? Ive always heard you need to put yourself out there but i haven’t a clue what one does to do that. The usual responses are “go out of your comfort zone” once again im not sure how. Most people i know meet people through work, school, friends, or family. I work with married women dont go to school and live with 2 family members and we all have just moved to this city. Im not trying to hijack the post or be funny just wondering.
Geez. You wanna know the secret to seducing a guy? Here it is. We’ll have sex anywhere, anytime, you just need to come on to us… whoo, mind blown, right? That’s how you “put yourself out there.”
Is this reply to me because i am a guy a straight one…..awkward pause
No it was to Death and Psyche
Whew lol
I’ve had similar problems with women and relationships. Part of my problem was a fear of intimacy. I couldn’t develop an emotional connection. Only in the last two years have I pushed past this fear and opened up to people, which also improved my relationships with women. At thirty five I met a nice woman, told her about my concerns and fears. She was very understanding and so I finally lost my virginity. Since then I’ve met and had a few more relationships.
When people say, “put yourself out there,” I believe it means to make yourself emotionally available. This can be difficult because of the fear of rejection. But relationships are about taking risks and going for what you want.
The other puzzle piece I had to learn was to see women for who they really are on the inside. It is so easy to get hung up on looks and appearance. The old saying, “don’t judge a book by its cover,” is a good one and something I didn’t know I was doing.
I now believe anyone can find love. But you have to love yourself first.
I hope some of this helps.
Women only call me ugly until they find out how much money I make. Then they call me ugly and poor. 🙁
Not sure I can relate. I’m skinny, have thin eyebrows and high cheekbones, not to mention I’m 6 foot 4 inches tall. Then again I also have a big nose, acne, and on the other hand I’m TOO skinny and have practically no muscles… so who knows if I’m attractive or not… /:
High cheekbones is always a massive plus…people pay to have surgery for such a feature. Your acne WILL clear up, your height will have a number of girls wet thru just being near you and men aren’t meant to have michael jackson noses but strong features which suggest good breeding quality. As for your skinny build, well, you got to wait for your metabalism to slow down a bit, bruv. 🙂
Heh. Funnily enough, I’ve been told I somewhat look like Michael Jackson before. Not like how he looks per-se, I look more like what he WANTED to look like, if you know what I mean…
As for my metabolism slowing down, I’m afraid I’ll just end up skinny fat, the worst kind of out of shape, with a gut but still no arms or pecs…
When I say put yourself out there I mean meet a lot of people, get to know them, and hopefully through that process you find someone who likes you back. Not doing what I do which is staying home and not talking with anyone when I go out except to say please, thank you, and have a nice day. So you need to find someone who is trying to find someone for themselves and open to chit chat. That way you have that in common and can be friends and possibly more. Or Internet dating. Some people have success with that.
I am not trying to seduce any guy so I am confused by the statement. I don’t consider myself to be the right kind of person for a relationship because I don’t see myself as remotely interesting or attractive. You have to like yourself before you date anyone and I don’t like myself. So I agree that you have to love yourself first in order to have a good relationship with someone else.