Supposedly, I have daddy issues and that I’m slightly sexually frustrated, even though I haven’t had sex. Is that possible? And what do both of these really mean?
5 months ago • General
Dec 12, 2016 @ 10:53:43
You’re growing up. No big deal, try masterbating. Read FEMINIST literature on the subject of sex. You need to prepare yourself for a dangerous and unfair world as many before you have done. You have many allies but it takes time to find them (most may have already passed). Make finding people who think like you but want nothing from you a new passion, it will pay off.
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The Last Snorlax
Dec 12, 2016 @ 11:13:18
yes both things are a “thing”, and yes one can be sexually frustrated without having had sex
but just because someone said you have/are, doesn’t necessarily mean it’s true, specially if it just some rando, or “friend” or some idiot
daddy issues (which is a sucky term mostly used by people just spouting BS), is when you have an unhealthy association, overly negative or “positive”, with your “father”figure/archetype, leading you to act out in different ways in particular to other males, or just risky behavior to yourself.
can stem from admiration or disgust/fear of your “father”,
when means you can dislike male figures, despise/distrust/hate/fear them, or seek attention or approval from them, or even just comfort, any recognition you can find, or even as far as all the way down to an Electra complex.
key being overly negative/positive, since some negative/positive association with the father figure is completely fine and normal.
sexual frustration is usually just said to you by idiots that thinks “you should just get laid”, when other things are really at work
but being sexually frustrated is a thing, desiring either sex but not achieving it/enough of it, or not being satisfied during sex, or not being able to perform/have sex but wanting to.
the human creature is mostly a very sexual being, hormones, biology and stuff starting to march out at a young age, causing curiosity and so on. and if everything is intense enough it can lead to frustration if the body wants something or the mind wants something but either doesn’t agree or just doesn’t get.
and societal “standards” doesn’t always make it easier, since some idiots out there think sex is just the answer to most things, and “just do it already”, which doesn’t really help, since sexuality is a deeply personal thing
and never be ashamed or feel bad about your sexuality, even if you are “sexually frustrated”
depending on what “idiot” told you that you were those things, I wouldn’t put too much weight on it, most people are just idiots.
The Last Snorlax
Dec 12, 2016 @ 11:30:47
also, unlike what Awakenotlong said, don’t just engage in something, even masturbation, if it’s not something you want/desire, never just engage in anything, specially sex related, if you don’t feel like it, just because others tell you to “just do it”
your life, your body, your desires wants and needs, so only “do it” on your terms, when you feel like it and want to, never because others said so or wants you to.
Your sexuality, your choice and right to choose whatever you want when you want and feel ready.
Dec 12, 2016 @ 12:03:29
What the last snorlax said!
Dec 12, 2016 @ 18:55:15
I would say it is possible, if you have touched yourself etc. Then you kinda have an idea of what it’s about, plus it is a biological imperative. Your body is telling you to pass on your genes. Your body can be very insistent.
Daddy issues, idk. I used to have a friend who loved girls with daddy issues, ’cause he knew just how to work them.
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