Like others my room is the most comfortable place for me.
When I’ve to go outside, everything that happens works like rubbing salt on my open wounds.
People really need to understand that its never okay to comment rudely on someone’s weight,especially when they have no idea about how it feels.
I keep myself locked inside my room because I really don’t want to face them. They make me even more depressed and lonely. And they think they are motivating me?
I would have really appreciated if somebody has given me some serious and helpful advice. But this way,
Their harsh and hurtful words aren’t doing anything to motivate me to lose weight. They are just dragging me down to hell.
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You know it has become a protocol now that when you get to meet someone they all of a sudden become expert critics, whether they “know” you or not. You really don’t have to be calm to those who disparage you of your weight. Be bold enough to confront their views. Never feel bad about yourself. People who body shame others are one of the worst kinds. I never was fat to my eyes but had almost everyone that gets to see me make fun of me or give great ideas to lose weight to fit size zero which is ridiculous. I be rude to them cuz I love my body and feel sexy about my weight.
I’ve dealt with body shammers my whole life from when I was a little girl my mom saying stick in your tummy when I’d wear a dress to church or my brothers poking fun even my dad making comments like the garbage disposal. To them it was harmless and funny to me it hurt. Mom always trying to make me diet then when I was 17 I became bulimic, then I started doing meth lost a ton of weight. However once I got out of using I gained it all back and then some, was in an abusive relationship where he always called me a fat c*nt made me feel worthless and so much more. So i ate and ate and ate to fill the void. I remember the day I decided to change, I was 540, I didn’t tell anyone what I was doing but I cut out the bad foods and started walking. Just 1/4 of a mile at first but after about 4 months I’d gotten up to about 5 miles a day a year in I had gotten up to 10 miles a day. Got down to 250. I then broke my back and couldn’t do the stuff I had been doing so I gained about 30lbs. Still after all the weight loss my mom will comment if I don’t eat she’ll say that’s not the way if I do eat she’ll comment oh not on your diet today? I can never be right in her eyes I suppose however I’m not stopping I want to loose 100 more lbs I’m not the healthiest person I do it all wrong cause my appetite comes and goes. I’m just trying to get in the loose weight mind set. I will forever struggle with it. I honestly had more confidence in my body at 540 than I do now (275 UGH) last summer I had some teens call me a cow at the pool it’s mortifying to be so fat and I hate it. So I know it’s hard when people are rude about your size. I know skinny people deal with the same issues where people tell them to eat a sandwich or whatever. I honestly wish people were seen by how they are on the inside, there would be a lot of people who look like monsters. *hugs* I’m glad you can feel sexy about your weight. OWN IT!!