I think what freaks us out the most is where to do it without being interrupted or traumatising people. I mean there are so many places, hotels, cottages, home, nightclub bathroom etc, I dunno.
The ongoing thought I have is that I don’t wanna do it at home because I don’t want to traumatise my family.
This isn’t really discussing methods, more like just interested in what you guys have to say, like where would you do it and why?
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I have the same issue. I really want to be at home in my bed but then my partner will find me the next day and i don’t want to put him through it. But neither do I want to be in the open where a stranger could find me or police end up searching and wasting their time.
It’s a tough decisions but I think I have decided to be in my room but on the floor next to my bed with towels/ sheets incase the there is a mess (sick/urine)
9 sleeps till I go. . ..
It’s a good point-what some people do is carry out the ‘act’ in a secluded place like a forest and they leave a map for others to locate them after. I agree you don’t want to do it in your own home since it’ll be a constant reminder and source of grief and they’d probably have to sell the house to avoid the pain/suffering.
It’s sensible to choose a means that doesn’t leave a terrible/traumatizing scene for others, especially family members who’d be first to discover you most likely. But I can understand if a person was in a hurry to die and didn’t care what others thought (say by using a gun). However I hope most people will have some consideration for others if they’re able to plan their suicide out.
That’s what I was thinking too, like maybe a secluded cabin the woods kind of thing. I do not want to traumatise anyone. I would rather police find me, who are trained to deal with that sort of thing. Thank you for your input ! Greatly appreciated.
It is good not to leave a terrible/traumatizing scene for others. Some of my potential methods (and I ain’t got many) are certainly gonna do just that, but desperate people do desperate things.
Ive been researching for months and months and now have found the perfect exit method
I’m just going to a motel. The cleaning lady would find me but I don’t care. My dead body will just look like I’m sleeping
That’s why I thought maybe in my room, I think the needle will freak them out the most. But I have no lock on my door, so yeah… probably not at home
A secluded place like a cottage in the mountains. I just dont want to be found before i die. I’d be pretty disappointed if i was found unconscious and woke up in a hospital. I would also consider a hotel or motel. With one last room service meal and a glass of poisoned lethal wine.
How fancy of you, that sounds positively Devine. i agree, a secluded cottage would be wonderful, in nature and bring 2 bottles of wine and then take the LD and disappear into the trees and out into the open, finally free of this torturous place. Yes hotel is good too, I would do a really expensive one, go out with a bang.
I don’t really care. If you kill yourself, your family will be traumatised anyway, and then slightly more so if they are the ones to find your body. You’ll be dead, so what does it matter? I just read story of a teenager who hanged himself at home in his garden, I then thought where could I do that. There are no suitable tress near me except maybe the church yard, and I’ll probably get spotted before I die, unless I do it a 3am in the morning. Hanging seems to be the most popular method of suicide in the UK. I like reading stories of suicide and I think I wish I was brave enough. It is sad though when a young person kill themselves.
Wow, in the garden… what a beautiful way to go. As mufasa said “when we die, our body becomes the grass, and the antelope eat the grass.”… that’s what that guy thought. He part of nature now. I’ve had many past lives. I guess now I am just tired of this one. But you are right, if I’m dead what does it matter who finds me. They’ll get over it or they’ll get worse, you are right. We will traumatise someone anyway.
I will do it in my house, in my mother’s bedroom. I want to drive her insane as a retribution for all the horrible things she has done to me. I would want the blood to be everywhere so that image can bury itself into her brain forever. Yeah, I hate her a lot.
But it’s nice to hear some people are considerate with this.
You are amazing xx
One of two places keep coming to the top of my list.
Hotel room:
Pros: check out time would lead to timely discovery, no damage to home, no discovery trauma for family, need only take very simple precautions to ensure discovery is by police. This affords totally privacy and all the time I would need.
Cons: a charge to explain if I backed out.
Outdoors behind/under something near a trail:
Pros: Stench would lead to timely discovery, no damage to home, no discovery trauma for family, need only to ensure my face is covered to minimize discovery trauma.
Cons: an absence to explain if I backed out.