I have lived many things in my life, met people and also made new friends, but in fact when you open your eyes .. when you need them ..you won’t find anyone beside you, you just help yourself, no one deserves your trust, love yourself and you will be happy!
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If I love myself, then who will I have to hate? I have to hate someone. Self-hate is more ethical than the alternative.
Why does it have to be you? Why not something? Find a rock, give it a name, and hate it. 🙂 Or an old ball; name it ‘Wilson’. 😉
God, I hate Wilson.
Easy to say, hard to do.
This is good advice but it will be lost on people who already hate themselves. I’ve been on both ends, loving myself, hating myself, and what you said is true. If you hate yourself you’ll find a way to be miserable no matter what. If you love yourself you’ll find a way to be happy no matter what. Today I’ll choose to love myself so thanks for this.
The problematic placement of commas also make it possible to read it as rather, um, depressing advice. Also confusing…
“…but in fact when you open your eyes .. when you need them…”
I really, really need my eyes when they are open. Yeah, I’m strange that way.
“…no one deserves your trust…”
Even when my life was at its shittiest, many people deserved my trust. Heck, I trust people I don’t even know, like the wonderful men and women that design and install elevators.
How do you mistrust without reason? People always have a reason for mistrusting others.. Going around and mistrusting everyone just because one person did you wrong, for example, is not the best way to live your life. You’d wind up distancing yourself from pretty much any and all future relationships with people, and most people need some form of company/social interaction, whether human or animal, to keep going in their lives….
Not pointing this at anyone, just a general statement.