A lot of people told me this.
Suicide is not an answer. If you are suffering, bear with it. You deserve to have that kind of suffering. Ending your life is just to escape the reality. You don’t want to have that pain anymore? Deal with it. Don’t act like there is something you can do about it. Live on. Die when it is time. Suffer the emotional pain instead of physical. People will just judge you when you die. They will blame others. They will blame themselves. Until it all goes back to you. They will blame you.
You are just bored. Work. Hangout with friends. Oh you don’t have any friends? Well that’s already your problem. The problem is really you. Do you think suicide is the answer? Think about it. Instead of people not knowing you for what you are right now. They will live on forever thinking you are stupid for committing suicide. Your family, instead of crying because you died, they will cry because of the expenses that you made when you died. Funeral expenses is larger than buying a small car. They could have just gotten a car but no you are too selfish for thinking about yourself that you made them suffer. You are not suffering anymore because you decided to end your life. But they are. It was an selfish act. You are not thinking about other people. You are just thinking about yourself. Don’t end your life. Let them end it for you.
Yes suicide is not an answer but that doesn’t mean you can’t hurt yourself right? Physical pain is so much better with emotional pain. Just don’t end your life. It isn’t yours to begin with. You don’t have the right to take your life. Since it is in your hands right now, you can do whatever you want with it. Just give it back in good condition.
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I do not agree…
What do you mean, don’t end your life it isn’t yours to begin with. I have every right to end my life I saw this one show on TedX regarding suicide and well it was a really good explanation of everything, the first thing mentioned first hand was how people should stop referring to it as “committing suicide” because it’s not a crime, it’s not rape it’s not a robbery it’s nothing of that sort.
If you think people are not selfish then you’re well completely wrong, everyone is selfish in a way or another the thing is most of the people want not to accept that fact that we’re rigged this way and there’s no way they’ll accept they are selfish.
I don’t think there’s a person who suicides to ruin someone else, they just do it because the pains they are suffering can’t be dealt with anymore and suicide is the only way out.
I myself have really small issues, but I find myself being more at peace if I’m dead and if I don’t have the anxiety to deal with, the depression or life in general.
I’m leaving my family a nice sum of cash that could be well fit for my funeral (I will however make a note that hopefully there’s no funeral held for me as a testament) and I’m also going to pay some debts my father is into, at a really high sum I’d rather not mention.
So no, we do think of others it’s just that sometimes it’s impossible to deal with all the issues life has to bring, especially when you’re sensitive, emotional and caring.
Being good was never an option.
Honestly, this wasn’t my opinion. I just compiled what they had been saying when I say that I really have no life and just do it. A lot of people are saying that I’m just being dramatic and bored and I would just like to do it because of what I have seen in the movies or in television. I’m really sick of other people telling me what can’t I do.
At least you will leave your family a sum of cash. Me, I’ll just be a burden to them.
Don’t think about you being a burden to your family, thing is it will eventually happen your funeral will happen someday, you’re just giving it an earlier schedule.
A lot of people say that because that’s how they avoid such subjects, I wouldn’t suggest you speaking openly to anyone IRL unless you want to go for therapy.
Thing is, people get uncomfortable when suicide is brought into play/conversation, they try to reason it to themselves first and then you, and they mostly tell you you’re being dramatic, you’re joking or you want attention or what you already mentioned all above.
People want to live in their safe, comfortable zone and when they’re dealt the sad truth card they can’t deal with it while we on the other hand can casually handle it and casually speak about it.
Because we’re all at somewhere around the same point hence why we have a better understanding. Never take people like these seriously (who gave you these god damn terrible comments), they’re the one who need help honestly imo.
@fuckedupworld “People want to live in their safe, comfortable zone and when they’re dealt the sad truth card they can’t deal with it while we on the other hand can casually handle it and casually speak about it.” I never saw it expressed this way before. Damn right!
1) Don’t have a family
2) Not having a funeral (will kill myself where body won’t be found)
3) Donf care what “other people” do
4) Not just bored
Lol the only thing my family will feel is doubt because I’m taking so many secrets with me to my grave. Yeah, these are the typical phrases people tell you, trying to make you feel guilty about ending your own life instead of trying to help you solve your problems. This just proves how stupid they are.