Long story short: a year ago I fell in love with a girl who was married for 1 year after being in an 8 year relationship. She fell in love with me too. She got a divorce and we got together. Fast forward a year and we are always fighting. I don’t know if we are right and yet I feel guilty that she left everything for me and I constantly let her down and dissappoint her.
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That’s some bad juju my friend.
My unsolicited advice would be confront issues like that. Talk to her about it if it’s weighing you down.
Unless you pressured her into it, she made that decision.
Anyway, assigning blame might not be constructive. Disagreements in a relationship are not bad if you work through them constructively. You can seek help with that. Don’t blame yourself or her. Focus on actions rather than identity, i.e. what are we doing, not who is at fault.
Don’t stay in a relationship out of a sense of obligation. But don’t leave it because of behaviour that can be changed.