Hi guys. I’m again here. As many of you know, I’m a very short man, only 5’5”, that’s why despite I’m 22 years old, I’m still a virgin. No girl ever kissed me. Shit! My life is the worst a man can have, full of loneliness and rejection. I don’t have money to study college and I have a part-time shitty job, where I am also alone. As you see, my life is so miserable that I don’t have a clue what to deal with it. How a man can’t stand this fucking life when he sees many of another men enjoying their lives with hot white girls? But unfortunately for me, white girls tend to be taller than me. That’s why I hate myself. I just want to slit my throat and end this suffering. I’m crying right now. FUCK!!!
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Well, you wanna a hot white girl, witch means you cares a lot about appearance. How can you complain about no one want to be with you? Be a less superficial. I dont care about beauty but I am sure wouldn’t go out with you. Cant stand superficial people.
Men tend to care more about appearance than women do, for evolutionary reasons. It’s not something you can just switch on or off, as far as I know. Kind of like men complaining that women are attracted to high-status men. Women can’t help it. It’s what worked for countless generations of their ancestors.
Yes, I care a lot about appearance. So what? I hate myself for being short, poor and ugly. I fucking hate the fucking world. I’m so angry and depressed, I don’t know what to do with my life. Please, a white girl in my life and all would be happy for me. Just a chance to have a white woman as girlfriend.
I’d rather someone kill me honestly, too much of that sh*t going around nowadays ever since idk 2013, kill me instead, kill me instead
I know a great guy with Aspergers. Handsome. Decent job. A lot of money in the bank. He will be 46 this month. He is also a virgin. But he knows he wants love. And sex. But you seem to objectify woman. Or hot white girls. Don’t blame your height.
Objectify women? They objectify themselves.
Speak for your mother. Girls that I know are not like that. This is probably why you guys dont get any girl. You chose them by their appearence, objectify them, dont have any social skill, dont at least make a move, dont talk to them, and then ***** about the fact that they are all superficial. Ok, right.
Did you visit the site I linked to? Because that is the most accessible, science-based, free material you are likely to find on this subject, and it offers hope.
thematinggrounds.com/the-mating-grounds-podcast-episode-28-qa-what-should-short-guys-do-in-short-term-mating-situations/
Women DO care about height, but it is not all they care about. As someone on the spectrum, TBH my guess would be that it is more your Asperger’s getting in the way.
Women generally have better social skills than men, and they value social skills in men. That is why the popular guys get the girls. I am tall, but I have met several short guys over the years who did much better than me with women, because they had better social skills. (When I say “social skills”, I also mean absent or low social anxiety.)
The biggest problem I see is that you are mercilessly focusing on your own flaws, but guess what: No one is dating your flaws. People date what they find attractive about someone, and put up with the rest.
So I really think you need to focus on what you do well/have to offer instead, and you may end up happier AND more capable.
Also, you can be attractive AF, but unless you make a move (or are famous), women will not come to you. You have to do the legwork.
Good luck
But I’m a loser. I don’t study, don’t have money and don’t have any social skills. I hate everything I do. I wanted to study but I don’t have money; I wanted to join the police or the army, but I’m short. Shit, man! My fucking life really sucks. No solution for this.
I’m almost 30, have Asperger’s and OCD, also a virgin… and couldn’t care less about it.
I know I’m going to get some backlash from this post, but I don’t care, your other posts also triggered me. Your goals in life are extremely trivial and primitive, people had them when they couldn’t even speak. What a shitty reason to suicide for especially when you’re young, seriously, get over it and do something else with your life.
I’m not downplaying your issues, because your reasons are truly minor. Do something else with your life, pick up some intellectual hobby or pursuit. To me, it’s like saying you can’t play your favorite video game or whatever and want to suicide because of it. Grow up.
What an idiotic comment. Mating is a totally fundamental drive for the vast majority of people.
That’s like telling someone to forget about eating food, because it’s a trivial pursuit that has been around for aeons.
Looks like muspelmoron is off his meds again. Wait 4 hours then he’ll issue a half assed apology to all the people he upset. Clockwork.
You need food to survive and you literally suffer physical pain if you don’t eat (enough) food. You don’t even need to suicide in that case because your body will take care of that (you die without food). Bad comparison.
Even if you want to suicide because of never tasting good food (let’s assume an example like that) due to not being able to, life’s more than food in any case and discovering those things is part of growing up. Sure it sucks with bad food but that doesn’t mean you can’t find other things to enjoy life with, there’s a lot of hope out there. Childish reason to want to suicide.
Also your drives can be controlled, that’s also part of living in a society as a mature individual (unless you’re one of those who thinks “dude did you see what she was wearing? I couldn’t control myself” is a justified reason for rape — I’m simply saying it can be controlled).
Like I said this is like a child throwing a tantrum that he can’t play his favorite video game, even if there’s loads of other activities he could do to enjoy his life (would make sense if you read his previous posts too). Expand his horizons, etc. He has a lot of options, resorting to suicide is stupid.
Most people who want to suicide (excluding most teens because yeah) are at the end of the line with no hope in sight. Those people did *try* alternatives and didn’t obsess over 1 thing, or are depressed and can’t find a hope anywhere. Tried several lifestyles, all didn’t work, etc. That’s a real reason for suicide. This is just a thing that will pass. (and if he does end up getting laid he’ll probably laugh at himself in the future)
The only reason you exist is your ancestors’ mating drives stretching back millenia. Your claim that they are insignificant and easily ignored are laughable. Why do you think catholic clergymen abuse choirboys?
“Also your drives can be controlled, that’s also part of living in a society as a mature individual”
Don’t you mean a 30-year-old virgin?
Hmm… Sorry, that legit was over the line.
Speak for your mother. Girls that I know are not like that. This is probably why you guys dont get any girl. You chose them by their appearence, objectify them, dont have any social skill, dont at least make a move, dont talk to them, and then ***** about the fact that they are all superficial. Ok, right.
Sorry, I posted two comments by mistake.
It is not to be ignored how he mentioned “white girls”. So he is not white, but he wants the white girls, because they are the most beautiful, so all he cares about is about f**and also about them having to be white. This perfectly represents the meanest kind of a primitive individual. F***ing is not a need in life, nobody dies from not doing it, instead lots of people die for f** or ruin their lives because of it. Get a book and study something useful, learn a skill so that you will be able to find a better job. Good jobs need to be striven and worked for. Everybody makes the effort to be qualified.
Fuck you! You don’t understand me, asshole! First, I’m half white, so I deserve white girls as girlfriends. No mexicans, no asians, only white or half white girlfriends. Is that a problem for you? I said I’m poor, so can I get a better job if I didn’t even get a college degree? I see bunch of 100% non whites with white girlfriends every fucking day, so is it prohibited according to you? What the hell, man? What’s wrong with you? I just want to have a normal life, be loved by a woman.
“F*** you! You don’t understand me, a**hole! First, I’m half white, so I deserve white girls as girlfriends. No mexicans, no asians, only white or half white girlfriends … I just want to have a normal life”
lmao. I can honestly say you deserve your predicament more than any other person on this site. This actually renews my faith in karma.
To be fair, you deserve a racist, insecure, physically awkward, angry little man as a lover 🙂
Don’t even know why i’d bother trying to succeed in life if there was no sex/romance as a potential reward.
No one can guarantee you success in this life.
The only variable you can control is how hard you try.
Elliot v 2.0…?
The race thing is kinda weird. I mean, whatever turns you on, but it sounds like it’s almost more about status than attraction. Why would you limit yourself like that, especially if you’re not getting any?
Sexual frustration can be hard to deal with (though apparently not for everyone.) All you can do is try and work on yourself, and in the mean time focus on other things. Being short is not a good reason for hating yourself. Your body is what it is. We all got thrown into the genetic lottery, and most of us came out with some cause for dissatisfaction and envy.
I know all you want is some magic solution to give you what you see others have. I often feel the same. But it doesn’t work like that. The world isn’t fair. We’re raised in a culture that praises physical beauty, social gregariousness, and economic ruthlessness. But some people are never going to be actors, athletes, musicians, or billionaires. All you can do is accept that, and find the best from it that you can right now. And remember that ultimately, it’s all just passing experience – no matter how successful you are, everyone ends up crippled, haggard, and dies alone. What comes before that is just a pleasant diversion.
Aspergers Rebel the minimum height for the US Army is 60 inches so you are more than tall enough. So you do have that option!
Well my friend i have some suggestions and they may help you:
1. Your heigh is good, i have friends whom you are taller than. You like sports? Start muscling your body with things like pushups, situps and jogging
For Pushups Situps you can do 30 pushups and situps every 3 hours in the day. It will take only 5-10 minutes and they do really make you feel much better and more attractive. Jogging can be done while youre out for something, you can just start jogging and don’t even care for what people think cause they can’t do what youre doing.
Muscling your body will make even bad shirts look perfect in your body.
2. Education : If you have internet access you can use KhanAcademy, its a perfect and completely-free educational site. The lessons are from elementary to College in every major(in the future they will add some high education programs too). They teach you and even if you couch you. After each lesson is learned itll tell you that youll have an exam the day after. They even make you ready for SAT-like exams.
4. Jobs: If youre really looking for learning you could try to find a job in libraries, even the lowest part in it. Because theres a big free time where you could go and choose a book and read. In a long time youll be like a professor:). This would make you an intelectual-educated person whom rich or intelectual people get attracted to. In this way youll show them despite your not good finance, youre really briliant and noble man.
it’s good to find jobs that make you learn something so you could get better at them and maybe start your own job for yourself in the future. Having experiences in jobs like plumber or house electrition and etc will lower your expenses in the future.
5.finding a girl for yourself: well for this thing there are many ways and there are many helps on internet which i think you have done some researches yourself in this area:). And trust me youll just get good at it by trying and failing and then trying again until you succeed. And believe me women have a compassionate heart and an intelectual and understanding mind, so once they know how hardworking and manly you are they will welcome you. And remember that you should hear them. Theyre not just for fun, they are a person and a person must be respected.
Most importantly you must become really selfconfident, which since youre a really hardworking man, we don’t need to worry about that.
Before you start with the woman youre looking for, you better start with every single person youll find to have a chance to talk to. In this way youll learn how to make the best impression in the very first words.
Once you do all the 4 works upon, it’ll be much easier because you are more self-disciplined and really really much more attractive nah?:))
Who would really reject such a person?
Wish you best of luck man
Brohood never dies
This way is a hard and it’s like the way gangstagrass sings the chorus : “i see that long hard times to commmeee” but youre a warrior.
Remember that you have a positive point and that is the bad condition you have. Because people can change in bad situations/conditions. (Could anyone change in a good situation? 🙂 )And change is the best thing happening through somebody’s life.
And it doesn’t happen by itself, youll have to make it happen, and im sure you can.
See you soon man
Harder than ever
Thank you for reading